sex with escorts versus sex with your wife

[cantstopdointhisconnor]

i feel so much better about my life right now ...

[EIFII]

What a sad and utterly depraved view of marriage.



As you were, bitches

[Curvaceous Kate]

Well, Kate, Thats a fairly strong reply,as to how escorts feel.
Of course escorts have built up much experience and specialise in their work.
The average wife may not have had much, if any experience, and often the main reason is for procreation, as her biological clock is on its way out.

As regards sex for entertainment, wives seem to be not interested.

I have met many fabulous escorts, who have been in failed relationships.

Visiting an escort, is a bit like going to a theatre,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,a treat,a fantasy, but one that can often leave great memories.

I doubt if any escorts would ever want to get married. They are too wise.

Sorry? Bollocks I am not talking for all Escorts. I was talking for myself. I have no idea how any other Escorts feel as I didn't ask them. Where did you get the idea that we are some kind of Borg collective where we all know what the other is thinking and feeling? Does that mean if you tell me something about yourself as a client you are talking about them all?

Now as a person and individual again I can tell you that back in the day when I was married to a man older and more experienced than I was (I was very innocent in those days). I was with a man who had no idea about sex or what was happening to my body and since I had no real experience prior to marrying him I never achieved one orgasm while with him. It's a two way street. The more you put into it as a man, the more you will receive.

I decided I wouldn't get married again way before I started being a sex worker, but oddly it is this occupation that has at least convinced me that I might like to have a significant other again, because some men out there are worth getting to know.

I'll accept your apology in pounds sterling

[Stevenn]

@OP

You are a sickening person. I genuinely dont know who to feel more sorry for, you or your wife.

Your posts suggest that you have been married for a while?

Why not do the decent thing and give this poor woman a chance at a happy life with a decent man. Unless she is as shallow as you are I'm sure she would prefer a life with someone who loves her.

[Curvaceous Kate]

@OP

You are a sickening person. I genuinely dont know who to feel more sorry for, you or your wife.

Your posts suggest that you have been married for a while?

Why not do the decent thing and give this poor woman a chance at a happy life with a decent man. Unless she is as shallow as you are I'm sure she would prefer a life with someone who loves her.

She divorced him by the sound of it.

[fluffy69]

its wrong to marry for social reasons,but is pressure on people to do it which is wrong. As being married for over 20 years and having many great years of sex life with wife,must admit it becomes more difficult to keep it interesting, and have to admit to playing about with escorts on and off usually its just the trill of a change of scene is the turn on but one can fall for somebody else that they meet,if u connect with them and if the sex is hot and not just the escort putting on a performance.So
in general guys like to play away with escorts, but return to wife for the usual ,but one can meet an escort at times who will test ur relationship which is no bad thing must ask questions of urself

[CANALI]

not to mention the fact that sex with escorts is always great cause they approach it like a task
with certain commitments which they are obligated to fulfill

married sex is bound to get tedious even if one finds their wife hot

maybe one day a new breed of women will arise where they prioritize being sex freaks for their husbands on an indefinite unfaltering basis

but until that day - im certainly happy that we havent evolved past the commonly perceived "depravity" that is - paying for sex

not to mention - having sex with strangers is also great

I don't have a wife and I do agree, having sex with strangers is great, but I also enjoy repeat performances with some of the lovely ladies on this site. The excitement of that opening door and the potential pleasure that awaits is a great turn on. You can read the profiles and view the photos all day long, but you never know what the experience is going to be like until you are lying naked beside her.

[The Libertarian]

I don't blame him at all. I blame the society we live in and the "social norms" it enforces.

You don't have to accept all social norms!

[The Libertarian]

I was told not to marry a good looking man as looks fade quick but ugly ones can get rich

Actually the only man I have ever met (a classmate from school) who was at a looks level (a bit like Jon Bon Jovi) where Irish women would ask him directly for a fuck and on one ocassion, I saw a group of women (early 20s) go up to a window, where they could see him at work and exclaim he was the best looking man ever, now works in a public sector job where he is on a €100K per year!
As the saying is have you ever seen a good looking homeless man!
There is a strong correlation very often for men and women between earning levels and looks and not just in sex related industries!

[The Libertarian]

From what I have heard sexless marriages are common enough in particular for middle aged couples!