sex with escorts versus sex with your wife

[Smackhisface]

which do you find better?

when i say wife - i mean ex wife - in my case at least

it was incredibly dull and listless
to be honest - i only married her cause i was young and not the best looking and questioned whether if i left her could i ever find another girl to accept me
it wasnt attraction
it was just more - i was scared of ending up alone and thought people would think more highly of me if they saw that ring on my finger

anyways the sex was incredibly boring and i never really enjoyed it
but it was better than a relationship with a box of old porno magazines

she would let me climb up on her a couple times a week just to keep things reasonable

i could never make her orgasm with my rod
she only ever orgasmed by taking my hand and using it to massage her vaginal roof vigorously
and 9 times out of 10 she would have her back turned to me in bed when she did this
i suppose as if looking at me was a turn off

then i began to work my way up the ladder in work (pharmaceuticals) and next thing i have money
and it occurred to me life was too short so i began having sex with escorts by the dozen
theyre a lot more accessible in london than ireland
but im over and back for clinical drug trail liaison work and this website was a pleasant surprise to find

ive never had as hot of sex or better sex or more rewarding and fulfilling experiences as ive had with escorts
it took me a while for my ego to get over the fact - "i have to pay for this"

but once i did and was able to disregard the idea that i should be in a relationship - albeit an unhappy malcontent one - to have my physical requirements met
well - in terms of fulfilling those physical desires - things have been ever so much better since

so long as i have a job that i love - money in the bank - a willing line of escorts who will allow me to do my dirty business on top of - and the good old internet as my one stop entertainment centre
i think i can firmly say i would take escort sex ahead of married sex (well - my marriage at least) any day

[Curvaceous Kate]

You should have never got married in the first place. It was unfair to shackle your wife down to a life with you where you did not truly care for her, find her attractive or put her first. In fact it sounds like she was purely to make you look better in the eyes of the people you were around at the time. You were not only undervaluing yourself, but her too.

Escorts are the perfect solution for someone who has no regard for other people's feelings, as we are able to go about our normal lives after the booking and surround ourselves with people that do respect us and like us for who we are. It's a shame you chose to see Escorts later in life, as that way your wife may have found someone who actually gave a fuck about her. I hope she still is able to do that, since you are no longer together.

If you ever feel the urge to get married again, do it for the right reasons and that is for 'both' of you and not just to save face.

[SteveB]

which do you find better?

when i say wife - i mean ex wife - in my case at least

it was incredibly dull and listless
to be honest - i only married her cause i was young and not the best looking and questioned whether if i left her could i ever find another girl to accept me
it wasnt attraction
it was just more - i was scared of ending up alone and thought people would think more highly of me if they saw that ring on my finger

anyways the sex was incredibly boring and i never really enjoyed it
but it was better than a relationship with a box of old porno magazines

she would let me climb up on her a couple times a week just to keep things reasonable

i could never make her orgasm with my rod
she only ever orgasmed by taking my hand and using it to massage her vaginal roof vigorously
and 9 times out of 10 she would have her back turned to me in bed when she did this
i suppose as if looking at me was a turn off

then i began to work my way up the ladder in work (pharmaceuticals) and next thing i have money
and it occurred to me life was too short so i began having sex with escorts by the dozen
theyre a lot more accessible in london than ireland
but im over and back for clinical drug trail liaison work and this website was a pleasant surprise to find

ive never had as hot of sex or better sex or more rewarding and fulfilling experiences as ive had with escorts
it took me a while for my ego to get over the fact - "i have to pay for this"

but once i did and was able to disregard the idea that i should be in a relationship - albeit an unhappy malcontent one - to have my physical requirements met
well - in terms of fulfilling those physical desires - things have been ever so much better since

so long as i have a job that i love - money in the bank - a willing line of escorts who will allow me to do my dirty business on top of - and the good old internet as my one stop entertainment centre
i think i can firmly say i would take escort sex ahead of married sex (well - my marriage at least) any day

You should have never got married in the first place. It was unfair to shackle your wife down to a life with you where you did not truly care for her, find her attractive or put her first. In fact it sounds like she was purely to make you look better in the eyes of the people you were around at the time. You were not only undervaluing yourself, but her too.

Escorts are the perfect solution for someone who has no regard for other people's feelings, as we are able to go about our normal lives after the booking and surround ourselves with people that do respect us and like us for who we are. It's a shame you chose to see Escorts later in life, as that way your wife may have found someone who actually gave a fuck about her. I hope she still is able to do that, since you are no longer together.

If you ever feel the urge to get married again, do it for the right reasons and that is for 'both' of you and not just to save face.

I don't blame him at all. I blame the society we live in and the "social norms" it enforces.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I don't blame him at all. I blame the society we live in and the "social norms" it enforces.

That's nice to know

[bollocks]

You should have never got married in the first place. It was unfair to shackle your wife down to a life with you where you did not truly care for her, find her attractive or put her first. In fact it sounds like she was purely to make you look better in the eyes of the people you were around at the time. You were not only undervaluing yourself, but her too.

Escorts are the perfect solution for someone who has no regard for other people's feelings, as we are able to go about our normal lives after the booking and surround ourselves with people that do respect us and like us for who we are. It's a shame you chose to see Escorts later in life, as that way your wife may have found someone who actually gave a fuck about her. I hope she still is able to do that, since you are no longer together.

If you ever feel the urge to get married again, do it for the right reasons and that is for 'both' of you and not just to save face.

Well, Kate, Thats a fairly strong reply,as to how escorts feel.
Of course escorts have built up much experience and specialise in their work.
The average wife may not have had much, if any experience, and often the main reason is for procreation, as her biological clock is on its way out.

As regards sex for entertainment, wives seem to be not interested.

I have met many fabulous escorts, who have been in failed relationships.

Visiting an escort, is a bit like going to a theatre,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,a treat,a fantasy, but one that can often leave great memories.

I doubt if any escorts would ever want to get married. They are too wise.

[ford pefect]

I'm quite happily married in every aspect except the bedroom , it used to cause me a lot of problems and frustration, but I then decided it was a small part of a relationship and I am happy visiting escorts with the occasional tryst at home .
I'm sure my wife at least suspects but is happy to turn a blind eye.
When I thought about it even at the beginning of our relationship sex was not as good as it is with most escorts I've met , very basic .
Whereas with an escort both sides know the expectations and like any business transaction , if your happy you will recommend and return

[Dom Dunn]

You should have never got married in the first place. It was unfair to shackle your wife down to a life with you where you did not truly care for her, find her attractive or put her first. In fact it sounds like she was purely to make you look better in the eyes of the people you were around at the time. You were not only undervaluing yourself, but her too.

Escorts are the perfect solution for someone who has no regard for other people's feelings, as we are able to go about our normal lives after the booking and surround ourselves with people that do respect us and like us for who we are. It's a shame you chose to see Escorts later in life, as that way your wife may have found someone who actually gave a fuck about her. I hope she still is able to do that, since you are no longer together.

If you ever feel the urge to get married again, do it for the right reasons and that is for 'both' of you and not just to save face.

A bit harsh kate I think. Are you suggesting that all your clients have "no regard for other peoples feelings"? The guy probably married for the wrong reasons but hey he is not the first and most certainly won't be the last.
Also I like to think that I do respect most escorts and like them for who they are but then again maybe I'm being delusional.

[KnickerSnifferDublin2016]

You should have never got married in the first place. It was unfair to shackle your wife down to a life with you where you did not truly care for her, find her attractive or put her first. In fact it sounds like she was purely to make you look better in the eyes of the people you were around at the time. You were not only undervaluing yourself, but her too.

Escorts are the perfect solution for someone who has no regard for other people's feelings, as we are able to go about our normal lives after the booking and surround ourselves with people that do respect us and like us for who we are. It's a shame you chose to see Escorts later in life, as that way your wife may have found someone who actually gave a fuck about her. I hope she still is able to do that, since you are no longer together.

If you ever feel the urge to get married again, do it for the right reasons and that is for 'both' of you and not just to save face.

Hell hath no fury and all that !

[Smackhisface]

I'm quite happily married in every aspect except the bedroom , it used to cause me a lot of problems and frustration, but I then decided it was a small part of a relationship and I am happy visiting escorts with the occasional tryst at home .
I'm sure my wife at least suspects but is happy to turn a blind eye.
When I thought about it even at the beginning of our relationship sex was not as good as it is with most escorts I've met , very basic .
Whereas with an escort both sides know the expectations and like any business transaction , if your happy you will recommend and return

if i thought the way back then - the way i think now - i would never have gotten married

although having a nice healthy bank balance definitely changes things
including my own opinion of myself

in fact nowadays - i don't even see why someone would want to get married - unless they met the proverbial girl of their dreams

so long as i have internet - a housekeeper to clean up the depraved mess that is my living conditions - and some escorts with whom i can perform filthy acts and live out my sordid fantasies with - the idea of marriage now seems preposterous to me
unless i had some sick compulsion to give away half me stuff in the inevitable divorce that would ensue

fact is - im not physically attractive enough to hold down a long term relationship with a woman with whom i might actually WANT a long term relationship with - without worrying that she would be lusting after guys that could be attractive enough to cater to her physical desires
there is no getting over that fact

[Smackhisface]

not to mention the fact that sex with escorts is always great cause they approach it like a task
with certain commitments which they are obligated to fulfill

married sex is bound to get tedious even if one finds their wife hot

maybe one day a new breed of women will arise where they prioritize being sex freaks for their husbands on an indefinite unfaltering basis

but until that day - im certainly happy that we havent evolved past the commonly perceived "depravity" that is - paying for sex

not to mention - having sex with strangers is also great