Married and men in relationship cheating

[Larrii]

Relationships are not just about sex, but kids, friends, a home, careers, both your families, holidays - lots of sharing.

If the deal is that you are both going to be faithful, provided the other partner keeps you happy in bed most of the time (for why else would you be faithful?!), then when it goes wrong or quiet, as a man you have 3 choices-

1. Do nothing, and hope it will magickally cure itself (you've tried. so more than likely it won't)
2. Start chasing your female friends
3. Look for a partner that neither of you knows.

2. is tacky as it involves a double betrayal. Women are most concerned about what their friends think.

3. Nobody needs to know. Just don't promise marriage and back out, because that is tacky. Escorts don't expect more than that you are respectful, clean and solvent.


It's not worth ending all that shared side of a relationship just for sex, leading to an expensive divorce and loads of heartache all round.

[legend14]

Can I ask are you married yourself? I agree 100% that it is cheating. I believe that most (irish) women would feck there husbands out the door if they knew they were seeing escorts on a regular basis. If a fella strayed once in a blue moon he might get away with it. It is true to say that seeing an escort is better than having an affair but that's only from our side. There is no emotional attachment (hopefully) and you wont have any bunny boilers following you around the town. Very few married women that I know would hang on to their husbands if they knew they were tapping escorts on a regular basis and I wouldn't blame them.

But it is wrong for you to be preaching to married blokes about this. The vast majority of clients are married or in a relationship, i'm not proud of what I do but I rarely feel guilty either. Things happen, people change, walking out of a relationship isn't the answer when things break down, theres mortgages, kids, other family shit, illness and god knows what else. 2 years ago I would have laughed at you if you told me I would start seeing escorts, but I did, and I have no regrets. And there is a lot less tension in my house because of it too. I don't want to go so far as to say its human nature but fellas carrying on outside their relationships its a lot more common than what people think.

Be grateful to the married blokes, if it wasn't for us there would be very few hot ladies here. The other thing that I would say is that i'm glad I didn't see escorts as a younger fella, I might never have got married and known what its like to be in a proper relationship. I have that worry about some of the young fellas that come on here.

Life will never be perfect for any of us.

Well said Senór!!!

[casman]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1873130]

I didn't know you where Single Casman and I thought you have a lady from your earlier statement..I apologise to you Casman as I didn't mean to throw a dig at you as it was a question put to you and hopefully didn't offend you..As I read last statement you got a good sense of humor and obviously take a lot to piss you off which is good thing as patience is key to everything..As you say you young single and free to meet whoever you like and enjoy meeting beautiful ladies..But one Lady if you get the chance to meet mate is Czech Rep Lady call Sexy Crystal as she doesn't tour much here But believe me she one of the best I ever met in my time as well as Neetu massage who in Scotland which I hope to meet around St Patrick Day weekend..Can't wait and one other Lady call Suzan who Spanish and what a body and she a stunner but mostly in letterkenny but she hardly tour as my time with her is erotic and wonderful..But go and try meet them 2 ladies here As won't be disappointed..Both ladies I click with but can't guarantee you will as you know yourself every client has different experience with escort..But you won't know mate until you meet them..

Your grand Mr Sweet Guy, no hassle at all, and your right about Sexy Crystal, a lady I have met a number of times, a stunning looking lady, you don't see many ladies of her calibre where i live, and it's a pleasure to meet such fascinating, stunning women, it's the life for sure, but I don't smoke or drink so it's my only vice

[legend14]

Well said and I was the same as you and didn't start seeing Escorts till my mid to late 40s. I can do it
now as I can afford it with kids now adults and mortgage paid off. I still have a great relationship with my wife
and we holiday twice a year but the Escorts do things for me that my wife just has no interest in anymore. It also boosts
my self confidence and as you said home life is a lot better because of it imo.

I would never ever consider having an affair as I think that would be too dangerous as there would then be an emotional attachment.
My view of it is that I know I am cheating but it doesn't make me feel at all guilty when it is with an Escort because I know it is only
a transaction between Escort and client where I can go and have 30min or an hour of whatever turns me on and then leave and go
home without feeling I have done something wrong.

I would seriously think that if my wife found out that I had cheated by visiting an Escort that she would be able to forgive me.
but if she found out that I was after having an affair with someone I think she would find it hard to forgive me. The guys who
come on here and say there is no way they would cheat on their partners are living in cuckoo land, as we all got the BJs and 69s
when we were young free and dating our wives but marriage , 4 kids , mortgage and Jobs stress can really fuck up a couples sex life.

Exactly!
In my mid forties now, only started seeing escorts a few years ago after over a decade of marriage and kids.
Wife's sex drive diminished, mine didn't!
...and here we are...

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=casman;1873139]

Your grand Mr Sweet Guy, no hassle at all, and your right about Sexy Crystal, a lady I have met a number of times, a stunning looking lady, you don't see many ladies of her calibre where i live, and it's a pleasure to meet such fascinating, stunning women, it's the life for sure, but I don't smoke or drink so it's my only vice

Thanks Casman and glad to hear you haves awesome experience with Sexy Crystal as you are right she is in high class and only 2 other have come close to her experience I had with her as Suzan and Neetu Massage now she a horny lady and nearly had a accident last time I met her as she tend to get carried away as all I say I had to stop her as I was reaching for raincoat for protection as thing where getting out of hand..But she a great kisser..And AWESOME Lady to spend time with..St Patrick weekend can't come quick enough..

[SeriousOne]

This is a funny one. No offense lads, but quite a few saying it's only cheating if there's an emotional attachment, so if you found out your wife/girlfriend was sucking your neighbours dick everyday twice a day, but no emotional attachment, you's be ok with that?