Married and men in relationship cheating

[Cortez]

The one fatal flaw with this logic is that the situation suddenly changes if/when she does find out. It is beyond me how married/partnered men can bear to look their partner in the eye knowing that are betraying them. Disgusting behaviour in my opinion.



A ludicrous statement with absolutely zero basis in fact. Can you quantify this in any way, or is it just your opinion? By a lot, do you mean 10%? 20%? 50%?

Can I ask are you married yourself? I agree 100% that it is cheating. I believe that most (irish) women would feck there husbands out the door if they knew they were seeing escorts on a regular basis. If a fella strayed once in a blue moon he might get away with it. It is true to say that seeing an escort is better than having an affair but that's only from our side. There is no emotional attachment (hopefully) and you wont have any bunny boilers following you around the town. Very few married women that I know would hang on to their husbands if they knew they were tapping escorts on a regular basis and I wouldn't blame them.

But it is wrong for you to be preaching to married blokes about this. The vast majority of clients are married or in a relationship, i'm not proud of what I do but I rarely feel guilty either. Things happen, people change, walking out of a relationship isn't the answer when things break down, theres mortgages, kids, other family shit, illness and god knows what else. 2 years ago I would have laughed at you if you told me I would start seeing escorts, but I did, and I have no regrets. And there is a lot less tension in my house because of it too. I don't want to go so far as to say its human nature but fellas carrying on outside their relationships its a lot more common than what people think.

Be grateful to the married blokes, if it wasn't for us there would be very few hot ladies here. The other thing that I would say is that i'm glad I didn't see escorts as a younger fella, I might never have got married and known what its like to be in a proper relationship. I have that worry about some of the young fellas that come on here.

Life will never be perfect for any of us.

[blue rebel]

Can I ask are you married yourself? I agree 100% that it is cheating. I believe that most (irish) women would feck there husbands out the door if they knew they were seeing escorts on a regular basis. If a fella strayed once in a blue moon he might get away with it. It is true to say that seeing an escort is better than having an affair but that's only from our side. There is no emotional attachment (hopefully) and you wont have any bunny boilers following you around the town. Very few married women that I know would hang on to their husbands if they knew they were tapping escorts on a regular basis and I wouldn't blame them.

But it is wrong for you to be preaching to married blokes about this. The vast majority of clients are married or in a relationship, i'm not proud of what I do but I rarely feel guilty either. Things happen, people change, walking out of a relationship isn't the answer when things break down, theres mortgages, kids, other family shit, illness and god knows what else. 2 years ago I would have laughed at you if you told me I would start seeing escorts, but I did, and I have no regrets. And there is a lot less tension in my house because of it too. I don't want to go so far as to say its human nature but fellas carrying on outside their relationships its a lot more common than what people think.

Be grateful to the married blokes, if it wasn't for us there would be very few hot ladies here. The other thing that I would say is that i'm glad I didn't see escorts as a younger fella, I might never have got married and known what its like to be in a proper relationship. I have that worry about some of the young fellas that come on here.

Life will never be perfect for any of us.

Well said and I was the same as you and didn't start seeing Escorts till my mid to late 40s. I can do it
now as I can afford it with kids now adults and mortgage paid off. I still have a great relationship with my wife
and we holiday twice a year but the Escorts do things for me that my wife just has no interest in anymore. It also boosts
my self confidence and as you said home life is a lot better because of it imo.

I would never ever consider having an affair as I think that would be too dangerous as there would then be an emotional attachment.
My view of it is that I know I am cheating but it doesn't make me feel at all guilty when it is with an Escort because I know it is only
a transaction between Escort and client where I can go and have 30min or an hour of whatever turns me on and then leave and go
home without feeling I have done something wrong.

I would seriously think that if my wife found out that I had cheated by visiting an Escort that she would be able to forgive me.
but if she found out that I was after having an affair with someone I think she would find it hard to forgive me. The guys who
come on here and say there is no way they would cheat on their partners are living in cuckoo land, as we all got the BJs and 69s
when we were young free and dating our wives but marriage , 4 kids , mortgage and Jobs stress can really fuck up a couples sex life.

[IrishSarahBarra]

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[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=casman;1872861]What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

[PlankMan]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1872988]

What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

Most of us on here have somewhat of a distorted view from the rest of society. Many of us divorce sex from emotion. That is not the case with the population at large; the majority of partners would feel a fundamental sense of betrayal if they knew that we were unfaithful. On reflection, we probably have some variation of Asperger's or some other social handicap.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=PlankMan;1872997]

Most of us on here have somewhat of a distorted view from the rest of society. Many of us divorce sex from emotion. That is not the case with the population at large; the majority of partners would feel a fundamental sense of betrayal if they knew that we were unfaithful. On reflection, we probably have some variation of Asperger's or some other social handicap.

I wouldn't go that far as last statement as each individual has their own life and problems to solve..But end of the day every couple has problem it how you deal with it as people with low sex drive is something can be deal with little patience and corporation..But running off having a affair or meeting escorts not answer..I was in a bar 3 week's ago with few mate and 2 ladies Sat near us chatting about their bloke back home as lack of sex is depriving them as one said to other that vibrator be use tonight as he not interested as could be plenty reason as maybe he loss sex drive having affair as excuse to not have sex with them but last statement is crazy as both were hot looking..Maybe he right mate as he think they where trying to get our attention..I guess we never know now..

[Iusedtobesomeonelse]

sex and love are 2 different things!!

[casman]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1872988]

What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

I wouldn't go that far Mr Sweet Guy ha, of course I wouldn't like my other half cheating on me, but for sure I would be far more forgiving if she was seeing an escort, rather than having an affair and screwing my best friend. I'm just saying I have seen relationships ruined because of affairs, where as an escorts will provide sex, with no emotional attachment. I'm single right now and I don't know if its escorts who is preventing me from finding someone, but I am having the time of my life being single and having lots of fun, I would like to think in the future if I do settle down, that I wouldn't cheat, but who knows, from what I read here from posters, sex seems to dry up when you put a ring on it, so who is to say I won't need to avail of an escort, to satisfy my natural urges in the future, when the other half just doesn't want to get intimate anymore. We all have needs, and I can totally understand why married men avail of escorts, it's the lesser of the evils and a lot more discrete than an affair.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=casman;1873060]

I wouldn't go that far Mr Sweet Guy ha, of course I wouldn't like my other half cheating on me, but for sure I would be far more forgiving if she was seeing an escort, rather than having an affair and screwing my best friend. I'm just saying I have seen relationships ruined because of affairs, where as an escorts will provide sex, with no emotional attachment. I'm single right now and I don't know if its escorts who is preventing me from finding someone, but I am having the time of my life being single and having lots of fun, I would like to think in the future if I do settle down, that I wouldn't cheat, but who knows, from what I read here from posters, sex seems to dry up when you put a ring on it, so who is to say I won't need to avail of an escort, to satisfy my natural urges in the future, when the other half just doesn't want to get intimate anymore. We all have needs, and I can totally understand why married men avail of escorts, it's the lesser of the evils and a lot more discrete than an affair.

I didn't know you where Single Casman and I thought you have a lady from your earlier statement..I apologise to you Casman as I didn't mean to throw a dig at you as it was a question put to you and hopefully didn't offend you..As I read last statement you got a good sense of humor and obviously take a lot to piss you off which is good thing as patience is key to everything..As you say you young single and free to meet whoever you like and enjoy meeting beautiful ladies..But one Lady if you get the chance to meet mate is Czech Rep Lady call Sexy Crystal as she doesn't tour much here But believe me she one of the best I ever met in my time as well as Neetu massage who in Scotland which I hope to meet around St Patrick Day weekend..Can't wait and one other Lady call Suzan who Spanish and what a body and she a stunner but mostly in letterkenny but she hardly tour as my time with her is erotic and wonderful..But go and try meet them 2 ladies here As won't be disappointed..Both ladies I click with but can't guarantee you will as you know yourself every client has different experience with escort..But you won't know mate until you meet them..

[Stevenn]

sex and love are 2 different things!!

Perhaps. But its not so cut and dry as that. For most people the two are intrinsically linked.

Naive to think otherwise.