Married and men in relationship cheating

[james12013]

Well after a punt i genuinely feel like a rotten shit for doing it , but funnily enough after a massage i dont feel as bad maybe thats just me ...but i see what your saying ,, would it be worse if i were having an affair ? i think so ,an affair is total deception at all levels ... not just sexual ... and like some of the lad's said here , it got to the stage where it got disheartening when the ans was always the same ,hence my visits to the beautiful ladies from Ei, Dont really see it as cheating more sexual counselling ..;-)

[LuckyLu]

I think having an affair makes it worse, if you can say that, because you get emotionally involved.
Seeing an advertiser here is a professional business, unless you get attached, I have heard that some men do.

[MidlifeCrisis]

Cheating is only cheating if there's an emotional attachment so as long as you don't give a f#ck then the conscience should be clear.

This is pretty much how I see it. I know from previous similar threads that lots of people take the "cheating is cheating" view, but I don't think any of us should be arrogant enough to think they can understand other people's relationships.

I would not be tempted by an affair at all, and would be racked by guilt if I did have one. If I were caught visiting escorts, I would regret the hurt it would cause, but I feel no guilt about my actions.

[tom rambo]

I started seeing Escorts because I was not getting what I wanted at home.but it is better to see a escort than have a Affair it has worked well for me,

Only for Irish Wife's work would be very slow for the Escorts here,lol

[EIFII]

First want to say it not a digs at anyone here as just a question...It alarming how many men cheat on love one as some got good excuse like Lady or wives don't want sex..Or like is it a adrenaline to show your mates that you can pull a beautiful lady..Or lastly is it just you been in relationships too long and feel you missing out on years with one partner..?

I have been in relationships for 9 years with her and still hope to have been only for tragedy..But look at other way and I wouldn't like my Lady cheating..But ladies do cheat also so it work both way I guess..But hey that life as I said life short live best you can everyone..Happy punting guys as if guys weren't meeting escorts than escorts be out of job..

There are a lot interesting and unexpected stories on here, Sweet Guy. PM me if you want to take this further

[Sherry]

First want to say it not a digs at anyone here as just a question...It alarming how many men cheat on love one as some got good excuse like Lady or wives don't want sex..Or like is it a adrenaline to show your mates that you can pull a beautiful lady..Or lastly is it just you been in relationships too long and feel you missing out on years with one partner..?

I have been in relationships for 9 years with her and still hope to have been only for tragedy..But look at other way and I wouldn't like my Lady cheating..But ladies do cheat also so it work both way I guess..But hey that life as I said life short live best you can everyone..Happy punting guys as if guys weren't meeting escorts than escorts be out of job..

if y visit the escort its dont mean cheat y partner or y wife
because y give for us just y body and y milk for a half or whatever
y dont give for us y heart
just statisfield yself

[Stevenn]

Always makes me laugh when this topic rears its head on this forum. Especially utter horseshit like this:

Cheating is only cheating if there's an emotional attachment so as long as you don't give a f#ck then the conscience should be clear.

Its just a thing cheaters say to ease their own conscience without taking ownership of the betrayal they performing on their partners. The guys spouting this shite would change their tune fairly quickly if they found out their partner was getting nailed by some gigolo and she tried to say there was no emotional attachment so its not cheating when she is taking 10 inches off someone else.

Guys if ye are going to cheat on yere wives/girlfriends/partners, at least acknowledge that it is cheating.

[Rocker123]

Always makes me laugh when this topic rears its head on this forum. Especially utter horseshit like this:



Its just a thing cheaters say to ease their own conscience without taking ownership of the betrayal they performing on their partners. The guys spouting this shite would change their tune fairly quickly if they found out their partner was getting nailed by some gigolo and she tried to say there was no emotional attachment so its not cheating when she is taking 10 inches off someone else.

Guys if ye are going to cheat on yere wives/girlfriends/partners, at least acknowledge that it is cheating.

I strongly disagree with what you said there and feel I must voice my opinion in the strongest possible terms. There is no way in the world any guys wife here is taking 10 inches. Being realistic it is probably 5 or 6.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Always makes me laugh when this topic rears its head on this forum. Especially utter horseshit like this:



Its just a thing cheaters say to ease their own conscience without taking ownership of the betrayal they performing on their partners. The guys spouting this shite would change their tune fairly quickly if they found out their partner was getting nailed by some gigolo and she tried to say there was no emotional attachment so its not cheating when she is taking 10 inches off someone else.

Guys if ye are going to cheat on yere wives/girlfriends/partners, at least acknowledge that it is cheating.

Great statement Stevenn as meeting escort and having sex with them Is cheating no two ways about it..Unless wife or partner agreed to you seeing escort or other ladies it fact it cheating..And people have no guilt..Look what Stevenn said and would you like it if your lady or man was banging someone else or they seeing escort too..I know I would be distraught and hurt...So people who think it ok to cheat on partners ask yourself this maybe she know and she cheating on you with your mate as payback..But I hope not as wouldn't wish that on anyone here..But it a funny old world as few month back one guy got ban from this site as he got caught meeting escorts and his relationship gone and stupidly blame the escorts and EI site for his cheating which was wrong as escort doesn't know if your in relationships or not as a lot of guys won't tell them and that their business..So how can you denied that not cheating as 100% it is..But some guys do try to make relationship work but relationship with out sex is meanless situation and no one can live like that as it nearly impossible to..

[Stevenn]

I don't quite get what ya trying to say there dude. Can you explain it a bit more?

Would have thought the general point of it is pretty straightforward.

Read it again slowly and if you're still not getting it, ask your missus to have a look and she might be able to explain to you.