Preferred length of dates

[Curvaceous Kate]

Does it not also depend on your kind of sex? Some guys are very full on and want it all in abundance and burn out after 20+ minutes, so a 30 minute booking is ideal, where another person may take it a little slower, be a little more sensual and spend a little more time exploring and that person would likely benefit more from a 1 hour+ booking.

I have had clients that have warn me out with a vigorous half hour, where it has been a complete whirl wind and even though the client has acknowledged he would love to spend more time with me, he also admits he couldn't keep up. The fact is he sets the pace, so he couldn't keep up with himself, not me. I'm happy to go with the flow.

Which brings me on to the old saying... 'If it's not broken why fix it?' If the way you enjoy your fun time works for you, then let it be. No point in changing unless you feel change is a good idea.

[Toolbox]

I always go for 1 or 2 hour appointments.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Thanks mate you answer my question as I book long session and use to wonder why ladies want me to have a shower after 10 min as bored them to death chatting about everything and will never touch them or want them sitting near me when chatting as they probably thought to themself what a cold heart bastard I got here..I talk to much as have been told by quite a few escort and some said less chat more action as piss off quite a few like that but blame on my shyness..But can't and won't Change as that way I like to spend time and company with escort slow and relaxing ..I guess escorts don't want client paying for a hour and chatting that time as frankly it would be boring alright..This will put off some escorts meeting me but better to be honest than live a lie..

As you have just stated your individual qualities as a client, please then don't go on to assume that all Escorts are the same and will react in the same way. We are also all individuals with different qualities and tolerance levels. Me I don't have a problem with a talker at all, although I would ask you to have a shower right from the get go, so then when the right time came we could get into second gear more naturally. It's important for all of us to feel comfortable and respected and be that in the form of listening and giving your full attention or being freshly showered, it all matters.

As long as you understand that the time you spend chatting is within your booking time I'm pretty sure it's all good. It might be worth remembering that as Josephine has said, some guys do try to add extra time on to compensate for conversation, so maybe if seeing someone for the first time you can reassure them that you enjoy a chat and won't be angling for extra time, so relax and don't worry.

[ford pefect]

Does it not also depend on your kind of sex? Some guys are very full on and want it all in abundance and burn out after 20+ minutes, so a 30 minute booking is ideal, where another person may take it a little slower, be a little more sensual and spend a little more time exploring and that person would likely benefit more from a 1 hour+ booking.

I have had clients that have warn me out with a vigorous half hour, where it has been a complete whirl wind and even though the client has acknowledged he would love to spend more time with me, he also admits he couldn't keep up. The fact is he sets the pace, so he couldn't keep up with himself, not me. I'm happy to go with the flow.

Which brings me on to the old saying... 'If it's not broken why fix it?' If the way you enjoy your fun time works for you, then let it be. No point in changing unless you feel change is a good idea.

Very accurate description , half hour does me , on two occasions I booked an hour but left after half hour , I'm like a bank account when I withdraw I lose interest

[Curvaceous Kate]

Very accurate description , half hour does me , on two occasions I booked an hour but left after half hour , I'm like a bank account when I withdraw I lose interest

We have a name for that lol. On a more serious note that could well be caused by a lack of a certain hormone. If you find that you instantly lose interest afterwards it means the oxytocin isn't working taking effect and that would normally make you feel sleepy and relaxed and be a stress releaser for a man. It has a different effect for women.

Of course it is not a life threatening thing and if you don't have a problem with that, then there is nothing to be done, but you can get a hormone replacement from the Doc if it is something that bothers you. (I believe). Obviously I'm not a qualified doctor, so telling you what I have heard. Well worth googling if you do find you would like to change that though.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Yes your right Curvaceous Kate as every escort is their own individual and have a shower first is right as clean and hygiene is very important..But Kate if I have a shower first I will be cold sitting chatting to you for next 20 min or more in a hour booking..As I state I don't like Lady sitting beside me or touching as it make me feel uncomfortable as I like to relax and chat first as want her to feel comfortable also without jumping on her..So will have to take your heater and put it beside me to keep me warm..lol...

But thanks for advice Curvaceous Kate and Irish Josephine as i take it on board on what you said and yes i don't ask personal questions as I tell them about a little my background and everyday news and know time spent chatting is included in company spent with them but had stay over time in some case especially if you enjoy each other as never got told off yet..I have one escort who I book for a hour as she lay on her bed and after 20 min even when shower taken I sat on edge on bed and chat but she demanded that unless I join her she was going to kick me out just towel on and it work..But it was a explosives ending as we click..So thanks you Kate and Josephine..

[Curvaceous Kate]

Yes your right Curvaceous Kate as every escort is their own individual and have a shower first is right as clean and hygiene is very important..But Kate if I have a shower first I will be cold sitting chatting to you for next 20 min or more in a hour booking..As I state I don't like Lady sitting beside me or touching as it make me feel uncomfortable as I like to relax and chat first as want her to feel comfortable also without jumping on her..So will have to take your heater and put it beside me to keep me warm..lol...

But thanks for advice Curvaceous Kate and Irish Josephine as i take it on board on what you said and yes i don't ask personal questions as I tell them about a little my background and everyday news and know time spent chatting is included in company spent with them but had stay over time in some case especially if you enjoy each other as never got told off yet..I have one escort who I book for a hour as she lay on her bed and after 20 min even when shower taken I sat on edge on bed and chat but she demanded that unless I join her she was going to kick me out just towel on and it work..But it was a explosives ending as we click..So thanks you Kate and Josephine..

You wouldn't be cold with me as I always have my room comfortably warm for nakedness, but also I do have a spare dressing gown (wet), so I'd have looked after you lol. I understand being sat with just a towel would be disconcerting for someone who was shy. I like shy people, although the ones that clam up and don't speak at all can be difficult to get relaxed sometimes.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

You wouldn't be cold with me as I always have my room comfortably warm for nakedness, but also I do have a spare dressing gown (wet), so I'd have looked after you lol. I understand being sat with just a towel would be disconcerting for someone who was shy. I like shy people, although the ones that clam up and don't speak at all can be difficult to get relaxed sometimes.

Good idea as we both can be naked Kate as we chat looking at each other but your beauty would melt my heart and I would give you gown as wouldn't want a beautiful lady going cold..But on second thought it would make me horny seeing your naked beauty and wouldn't go the 20 min Mark as I would has to touch and caress your beautiful soft skin and kiss you..But I would try chat for 20 min but darn it would be impossible as lust would take over seeing you naked would turn any guy on Kate..

[paddywack]

2 hours is quite a lot, particularly if you're not madly in love with each other.

Not really as if she has to get taxi's and travel, 1 hours not much use, then she'll want to use the bathroom to freshen up and change outfits maybe, you know yourself the length they can spend in the bathroom, several times I had to check if they were still alive.
but it gives both the chance to relax and enjoy the time together, nice drink, chat and at my age I dont want any dramas

[Curvaceous Kate]

Good idea as we both can be naked Kate as we chat looking at each other but your beauty would melt my heart and I would give you gown as wouldn't want a beautiful lady going cold..But on second thought it would make me horny seeing your naked beauty and wouldn't go the 20 min Mark as I would has to touch and caress your beautiful soft skin and kiss you..But I would try chat for 20 min but darn it would be impossible as lust would take over seeing you naked would turn any guy on Kate..

Is it bad that I laughed when I read this? You are sweet x