Kill my nerves - advice for a newbie

[Best Before]

Hi

I have flirted with the idea of seeing an escort for a few years now - a busy life and a girlfriend has kept be at bay.
I have a few questions i would love to get answers to and appreciate anyone who does so....il start with a quick intro

I am young - 25 and have been with the same girl for a long time - 7 years. she may be the one but because of our long relationship iv missed out on aot of sex and fun with different women. i have a deep desire to have sexual experiences with someone/s new.
The fear of: being caught by law or family, scams, nerves and finally potentially being wrong , thinking escorts can satisfy what i need when infact i should be going to the red light district for that - are various reasons stopping be

So my questions are pretty blunt and straight to it:

1- baring the obvious : being clean and respectful and having the money : can i genuinely get sex/ sexual favours for the price advertised. rough of the top e.g. - £70 to see someone for 30 mins - can i get a blowjob and doggystyle for this price ( i know its a typical question but bare with me - newbie here )

2 - first contact - phonecall - will it be the genuine escort or a rep? and on the phone...do i list / state the favours i want ias they are - or do i just say GFE . xyz date and time?

3- cash or envelope - maybe the actual lovely ladies themselves can answer which method is best?

4- sex included? i have this doubt in my head that the money you pay is to meet them only and anything you want costs extra? i dont want to be going and spending £200-£400 for a quickie or something like that.

5- trust - how do i know its safe and not a scam? that there isnt going to be some law officer waiting for me going "ha got you!" , or some giant dude ready to rob me. ; maybe best answer to this is research? the reviews and verified photos?

6- would an escort see someone regardless of their appearance / age ?
i am a genuinely decent looking guy, but i often wonder if escorts will only see david beckham / ronaldo like guys - atheletic rich guys that are models? or can it genuinely be the average dude thats over the legal age ( obviously hygienic etc)

7- am i right or do i need a brothel/street hooker?
i dont think i would go for a street hooker or brothel , i want to see respectful clean business women for my need/desires. can escorts provide this , or do i need to go to amsterdam so to speak.

i am sorry this is long winded , but know this.....your answers may actually bring a new punter into the game.

final question....why do you call it punting? is it always a risk?

You seem to be getting bogged down in the detail here. Just do your research and try and avoid the agencies (they're the ones with the secretaries!!), it's getting harder to spot I will concede, but from a quick glance I can see a couple of Indy girls there. Don't worry about cash or envelopes, or if certain extras are included. It's my experience that the cheaper escorts charge for extras and it will work out as a false economy. But you should be able to get a oral and sex for the price point you are looking at. Good luck, and don't leave it another 6 months to post a similar thread, just refer back to the responses on this thread to seek your answers

[LuckyLu]

Hello MartinR,
And a very warm welcome to the nut house
Very recently Dr Alan posted this, you might find it helpful.
Xxx

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...44#post1866544

[Best Before]

Hello MartinR,
And a very warm welcome to the nut house
Very recently Dr Alan posted this, you might find it helpful.
Xxx

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...44#post1866544

Wow, that's a post and a half, but strangely to the point.

[IrishSarahBarra]

It is excellent. He should write an oath for us.

[alcatel]

Hi

I have flirted with the idea of seeing an escort for a few years now - a busy life and a girlfriend has kept be at bay.
I have a few questions i would love to get answers to and appreciate anyone who does so....il start with a quick intro

I am young - 25 and have been with the same girl for a long time - 7 years. she may be the one but because of our long relationship iv missed out on aot of sex and fun with different women. i have a deep desire to have sexual experiences with someone/s new.
The fear of: being caught by law or family, scams, nerves and finally potentially being wrong , thinking escorts can satisfy what i need when infact i should be going to the red light district for that - are various reasons stopping be

So my questions are pretty blunt and straight to it:

1- baring the obvious : being clean and respectful and having the money : can i genuinely get sex/ sexual favours for the price advertised. rough of the top e.g. - £70 to see someone for 30 mins - can i get a blowjob and doggystyle for this price ( i know its a typical question but bare with me - newbie here )

2 - first contact - phonecall - will it be the genuine escort or a rep? and on the phone...do i list / state the favours i want ias they are - or do i just say GFE . xyz date and time?

3- cash or envelope - maybe the actual lovely ladies themselves can answer which method is best?

4- sex included? i have this doubt in my head that the money you pay is to meet them only and anything you want costs extra? i dont want to be going and spending £200-£400 for a quickie or something like that.

5- trust - how do i know its safe and not a scam? that there isnt going to be some law officer waiting for me going "ha got you!" , or some giant dude ready to rob me. ; maybe best answer to this is research? the reviews and verified photos?

6- would an escort see someone regardless of their appearance / age ?
i am a genuinely decent looking guy, but i often wonder if escorts will only see david beckham / ronaldo like guys - atheletic rich guys that are models? or can it genuinely be the average dude thats over the legal age ( obviously hygienic etc)

7- am i right or do i need a brothel/street hooker?
i dont think i would go for a street hooker or brothel , i want to see respectful clean business women for my need/desires. can escorts provide this , or do i need to go to amsterdam so to speak.

i am sorry this is long winded , but know this.....your answers may actually bring a new punter into the game.

final question....why do you call it punting? is it always a risk?

Hey Mr. Ace of Spades, a name I can recommend is Frances Fitzgerald.
She has beem calming nerves here since around the time you joined in 2014;-)

[tom sand]

Hey Mr. Ace of Spades, a name I can recommend is Frances Fitzgerald.
She has beem calming nerves here since around the time you joined in 2014;-)

if I ever set banned
that's my next profile name

[alcatel]

if I ever set banned
that's my next profile name

I'll be the Queen of Hearts.
They'll never recognise me until I shout 'Off with their Heads' '.

[MartinR]

Guys

the reason i have re posted similar threads is obvious
i havent had my questions answered
the 6/7 i ask here.

its genuine and i have thought about the idea for a long time now obviously but just bashed out questions to the community.

this time it is a proper attempt to make that first step.

[alcatel]

Guys

the reason i have re posted similar threads is obvious
i havent had my questions answered
the 6/7 i ask here.

its genuine and i have thought about the idea for a long time now obviously but just bashed out questions to the community.

this time it is a proper attempt to make that first step.

If it was about buying a pair of runners, I would say, just do it.