Kill my nerves - advice for a newbie

[MartinR]

Hi

I have flirted with the idea of seeing an escort for a few years now - a busy life and a girlfriend has kept be at bay.
I have a few questions i would love to get answers to and appreciate anyone who does so....il start with a quick intro

I am young - 25 and have been with the same girl for a long time - 7 years. she may be the one but because of our long relationship iv missed out on aot of sex and fun with different women. i have a deep desire to have sexual experiences with someone/s new.
The fear of: being caught by law or family, scams, nerves and finally potentially being wrong , thinking escorts can satisfy what i need when infact i should be going to the red light district for that - are various reasons stopping be

So my questions are pretty blunt and straight to it:

1- baring the obvious : being clean and respectful and having the money : can i genuinely get sex/ sexual favours for the price advertised. rough of the top e.g. - £70 to see someone for 30 mins - can i get a blowjob and doggystyle for this price ( i know its a typical question but bare with me - newbie here )

2 - first contact - phonecall - will it be the genuine escort or a rep? and on the phone...do i list / state the favours i want ias they are - or do i just say GFE . xyz date and time?

3- cash or envelope - maybe the actual lovely ladies themselves can answer which method is best?

4- sex included? i have this doubt in my head that the money you pay is to meet them only and anything you want costs extra? i dont want to be going and spending £200-£400 for a quickie or something like that.

5- trust - how do i know its safe and not a scam? that there isnt going to be some law officer waiting for me going "ha got you!" , or some giant dude ready to rob me. ; maybe best answer to this is research? the reviews and verified photos?

6- would an escort see someone regardless of their appearance / age ?
i am a genuinely decent looking guy, but i often wonder if escorts will only see david beckham / ronaldo like guys - atheletic rich guys that are models? or can it genuinely be the average dude thats over the legal age ( obviously hygienic etc)

7- am i right or do i need a brothel/street hooker?
i dont think i would go for a street hooker or brothel , i want to see respectful clean business women for my need/desires. can escorts provide this , or do i need to go to amsterdam so to speak.

i am sorry this is long winded , but know this.....your answers may actually bring a new punter into the game.

final question....why do you call it punting? is it always a risk?