Originally Posted by
MidlifeCrisis
There used to be an "Eejit's Guide", but it is either deleted or moved somewhere I can't find it. A few basics:
It is a good idea to search for ladies with Verified Photos, and Allow Reviews in your area. Choose someone with a decent number of good reviews.
Read the advertisement carefully, especially the favourites, and the diary that shows times they may be available.
If you are new, make a phone call first - PM's are often ignored if they don't know you. Keep it friendly and polite, but fairly short. Let them know that you saw and liked their advertisement here, be clear on when you would like to see them and for how long. Don't try and turn the call into a chat unless they do. Listen carefully to requests for confirming the appointment - most don't think of it as definite until you have exchanged texts in advance of the appointment.
Make sure you are VERY clean - special attention to down below and oral hygiene. Take a quick shower at their place as well.
Arrive on time and don't overstay. Offer your "donation" in an envelope within the first few minutes.
If you have chosen well and treat the lady respectfully, you will find any nerves disappear quickly, and they will make it go smoother and better than you thought possible.
Good luck.