Refused because of my Race

[QuietSoul]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

[Irish Leigha]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

I fully understand ladies not seeing guys because of nationality however, there is no need to be abusive or mean. A clear no at the start would be sufficient.


Personally, I've met some lovely foreign clients however, I don't see any client (foreign or not) without references for safety purposes.

I'm sorry to hear that you have had bad experiences and hope that someone changes those negatives into positives

Happy Xmas xx

[DevTeam]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

I am sorry mate to hear that terrible thing and sad world to live in as I know people have opinion right of choice on who they meet...I met a beautiful Ebony lady and even she won't even see Black men or Foreign men either as only Irish or British men and I said it racist but she said it her preferred choice.....I wish I could give you answer but even I lost for words mate...Their is a lot of good Escorts out there who don't have a problem with race or nationality so don't give up and keep trying mate and I know it hard and frustrating but you got to keep going and good luck...

[bettercallsaul]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

Wow!

I Honestly have no clue what you are facing, I WON'T EVEN PRETEND TOO! But I do know several ladies and many of them are Irish btw that would be pleased to meet you if you are genuine, Pm me If ya want!

[bettercallsaul]

It's pretty common on another website whose pages are not forward, for advertisers to specify no black men. It's hard to decompile it down to anything more noble than plain old racism. Sad to see.

It's also a rather strange Avatar to Have giver the topic..... Obviously I am not reading anything into that....

[Irish Leigha]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

It sounds like a good idea.

It will provide clarity for both escorts and clients alike.

[bettercallsaul]

Well spotted.

All good Mate...Just looked bad given the topic.

[tom sand]

sorry to hear that
QuietSoul
i think
every one's a racist
at the end of the day
but most people
don't
put it in to worlds
or
actions
and
rightfully so
keep it too yourself

[ladiesman217]

sorry to hear that
QuietSoul
i think
every one's a racist
at the end of the day
but most people
don't
put it in to worlds
or
actions
and
rightfully so
keep it too yourself

Hmm let me alter that there slightly Tommy old boy, from my own personal perspective

Everyone is racist, but not everyone is a racist.

There isn't a single human being alive that has not had any racist thoughts in their lifetime, however good a heart they may have and I include myself here. The difference is whether or not you are a racist. The key is whether or not you choose to act on these thoughts, that is what makes someone a racist. Calling people X, Y or Z to intentionally insult them based on their ethnic background or attacking someone because they are of a certain race, colour, etc is what defines a racist.

If that makes sense...