Eh, how can I put this, ah yes, get over yourself!!
There's any amount of reasons we all face as to why certain ladies won't meet certain types of guys, most of them are acceptable but god forbid they refuse a Black guy, they must be racists and throwing in the tit bit that they call you the N word, nice touch to stir the troops.
Move on, plenty more fish in the sea is the default response so why not for you, ah yes, you're Black so not sympathizing with you would make us racist
Seeing racism where there is none intended can be construed that you are the actual racist.