No sex

[Mr Sweet Guy]

This is really strange because it is either business or friendship. And friendship usually means no sex. You may click with an escort, and that will "make the business end better" of course.

Friend with no benefit I think your answer....But yes I don't go there to have sex with her it either happen or it doesn't...
But that why I haven't met her in while now....
And yes last time we met it was awkward as it true we are more like friends now then Escort and client so that why I haven't seen her for a while..
But chat now and again and she not going to be in long haul as she got plan for future and wish her well when she leave this business...

[lapd]

Is it normal to meet unhappy escorts? Not cold, genuinely unhappy with their choice of work and how they got there.

Have met hundreds of unhappy "sex workers" and yes some were VERY unhappy .

[EIFII]

Some escort told me years ago it was like emergency workers looking at bodies, you just switch off.

I don't believe that can be true in every case, as that would imply the escort never takes pleasure from an appointment and the company of one of her favourite clients. Still not anything like a "civilian" relationship though

[Dub Lad]

Have met hundreds of unhappy "sex workers" and yes some were VERY unhappy .

and you feel ok with having sex with a very unhappy sex worker? it didn't cross your mind she might not have the option?

[alcatel]

Agreed. Its either business or friendship and IMO my friends don't charge me for sex.
Now of course its better if you have a bit of fun and banter with the lady and feel fuckin great in each others company but it's still business.

Count the hapence in the till, moneygrubber.

[EIFII]

No its perfect, hope that doesn't change your mind on the thanks.

Best reply ever Sarah

[EIFII]

Have met hundreds of unhappy "sex workers" and yes some were VERY unhappy .

So when you perceive her unhappiness, do you continue with the appointment or what?

And if you have met hundreds of these unfortunate people, you must either be a human trafficker or your selection process must need some refinement.

[lapd]

I don't believe that can be true in every case, as that would imply the escort never takes pleasure from an appointment and the company of one of her favourite clients. Still not anything like a "civilian" relationship though

No not in every case, but either profession like to leave it all at end of shift and go to" normal "world. Lady who told me is now long out of escorting, and helping others leave.

Do escorts really have " favourites" ? Agreed could not be anything like normal relationship .

[johnb59]

Is it normal to meet unhappy escorts? Not cold, genuinely unhappy with their choice of work and how they got there.

Tough question sometimes you can sense it and then you might think is she unhappy with me or something deepeer than that ,sometimes you do wonder under what circumstances did she end up doing this for a living,?has she no other options open to her,and on the other hand some escorts just love what their doing and that really shows

[F-Dub]

I believe there is a mental place that a girl goes to in selling her body for sexual encounters with strangers that makes the encounter from her experience quite unlike any other human relationship. Any comparison of an escort-client relationship with a "civilian" one is rendered meangingless by its terms of reference.

Exactly right. I think some here are mixing up the two relation dynamics.

Escort / client relationship - Mostly sex first meet with fun chat/ flirting and maybe a casual friendship later if seeing her lots of time. But it is a paid service

Guy/ Girl Dating Relationship - I would not have sex with a girl on first few dates. It a different dynamic to escort / client both people sussing each other out for a potential sexual partner status. Both spending lots more time with each other then the escort / client relationship. If you are looking for championship time why not try and arrange some dates with a non escort woman there are lots of single woman everywhere.

Escorts expect if booked that some sexual encounter is likely. Remember woman enjoy good sex as much as men so don't be shy about doing it with them. Some people are mixing up the two relationship types above. They are different. Yes some overlapping in the social graces and chat/ flirting communication but different not the same.