No sex

[collinsp]

this is a very worthwhile thread though. It's opened eyes to the fact that different people, from different circumstances, want different things from their appointments. I know the girls here don't really talk about the details of their dates, but I'm sure they would attest to this if they ever did.

A lot of us are conditioned and coloured by our experiences with girls in the past. For example, any time I ever went on a first date with someone I found myself liking a lot, I would never push for sex. Playing the long game was always more fruitful. I know the dynamics of a date with an escort are going to be very different, but I don't think it's too much of a stretch that you could end up liking each other a lot, and that you would think likewise about how you want things to play out.

I dunno, I'm rambling. Just, to me it doesn't seem so strange to not have or want sex (at least) the first time you meet someone, regardless if it's an escort or not.

That begs another question though. When people punt, do they go to their dates with an open mind as to whether it might be something that you'll want to repeat over time, or is the prevailing attitude to go for the ride, if you like it, you might be back?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

this is a very worthwhile thread though. It's opened eyes to the fact that different people, from different circumstances, want different things from their appointments. I know the girls here don't really talk about the details of their dates, but I'm sure they would attest to this if they ever did.

A lot of us are conditioned and coloured by our experiences with girls in the past. For example, any time I ever went on a first date with someone I found myself liking a lot, I would never push for sex. Playing the long game was always more fruitful. I know the dynamics of a date with an escort are going to be very different, but I don't think it's too much of a stretch that you could end up liking each other a lot, and that you would think likewise about how you want things to play out.

I dunno, I'm rambling. Just, to me it doesn't seem so strange to not have or want sex (at least) the first time you meet someone, regardless if it's an escort or not.

That begs another question though. When people punt, do they go to their dates with an open mind as to whether it might be something that you'll want to repeat over time, or is the prevailing attitude to go for the ride, if you like it, you might be back?

It vary with every client and I have a great friendship with 2 escort that one of we even talk on phone now and again and just chat about life and general..
Yes we have sex sometime well truthfully most time but it trust and respect for each other that we know it business only but we click so it make business end better I guess...

[johnb59]

It vary with every client and I have a great friendship with 2 escort that one of we even talk on phone now and again and just chat about life and general..
Yes we have sex sometime well truthfully most time but it trust and respect for each other that we know it business only but we click so it make business end better I guess...

totally agree i have similar ,but at the end of the day it is business

[JAMESCORK]

It always amazed me when I hear of guys that go see escorts but do not have sex with them. I know it happens as I have heard it many times. I suppose it is weirder considering the escorts that tell me so. How can you sit and chat with this goddess with the body of a goddess and knowing you could have her naked sucking your cock in a second... but you say "nah... let's just chat".....

Fuckin hell. I am so different to you guys....

[gonzo76]

Thats a fair point but,but paying for companionship,?there is plenty of places to go for companionship without paying for it ,but everyone to their own

Sure, I agree, I think most people do go for sex, or at least intimacy, but maybe that intimacy is not actual sex.

I know some people who do not have friends, are socially awkward, etc, even reclusive. These people might see an escort as an easier way to ensure meeting and talking to someone.

And I'm sure psychologists charge about as much as escorts. And I doubt many psychologists look like Rachel Divine!!

[gonzo76]

It always amazed me when I hear of guys that go see escorts but do not have sex with them. I know it happens as I have heard it many times. I suppose it is weirder considering the escorts that tell me so. How can you sit and chat with this goddess with the body of a goddess and knowing you could have her naked sucking your cock in a second... but you say "nah... let's just chat".....

Fuckin hell. I am so different to you guys....

I'm in your camp, but I must say that for me things are better if there is a rapport. So I'm not there for the conversation, but it helps!

[JAMESCORK]

Sure, I agree, I think most people do go for sex, or at least intimacy, but maybe that intimacy is not actual sex.

I know some people who do not have friends, are socially awkward, etc, even reclusive. These people might see an escort as an easier way to ensure meeting and talking to someone.

And I'm sure psychologists charge about as much as escorts. And I doubt many psychologists look like Rachel Divine!!

Lol.

Surely there is a cheaper way to get companionship.

[alcatel]

You are confusing the reality world with the E-I fantasy world.

Why don't you just not go to see an escort when you're on your period or better yet why not just leave your vagina at home.

I think that Danny is simply making the point that Mr Sweet Guy sounds rather like an escort posting under a client's profile. A valid contribution to understanding this thread, I would have thought.

I actually think he's just telling ya straight.
This is an escort website where you meet pretty ladies for time and companionship which of course means sexual activities.
If you want chit chats, holding hands and all that baloney then join one of those lonely hearts clubs.

Not sure if I'd go that far but I do raise an eyebrow at all the lick arsing he / she does.

The arseholes are out in force today.

[alcatel]

You are confusing the reality world with the E-I fantasy world.

Why don't you just not go to see an escort when you're on your period or better yet why not just leave your vagina at home.

I think that Danny is simply making the point that Mr Sweet Guy sounds rather like an escort posting under a client's profile. A valid contribution to understanding this thread, I would have thought.

I actually think he's just telling ya straight.
This is an escort website where you meet pretty ladies for time and companionship which of course means sexual activities.
If you want chit chats, holding hands and all that baloney then join one of those lonely hearts clubs.

Not sure if I'd go that far but I do raise an eyebrow at all the lick arsing he / she does.

Mechanical failure.

ap
Sadly I missed this piece of crap in my previous post

[JAMESCORK]

I'd be the same as you but I need more than just sex for it to be a satisfactory experience. I just wouldn't be up for judging anyone as a vagina-carrying member of the menstrual club for having different needs.

I'm in your camp, but I must say that for me things are better if there is a rapport. So I'm not there for the conversation, but it helps!

I agree. I have learnt not to judge. But I can still have an opinion. My opinion is that a punter that pays to visit a sexbomb to have a chat or a cuddle and doesn't want sexual relief is unusual. If I see a sexy gorgeous girl in civvy street I know I do consider what she would look like on my cock.

But here... maybe I'm the abnormal one??