Do phone calls ever go really bad for you?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

sadly when i ring, they say 'I only see Irish guys' and hang up

Well that me screwed as I guess being English Count as well..
No more fun for me either White Knight Howard..
A pity as I wanted to meet a lovely Escort this week but my hope dashed..

[mikeb]

I get phone calls asking how much for sex and I hang up, some newbie mistakes are not worth bothering with as reporters might be wanting a story so I avoid.

You should be more confident after the call surely as had you not called she might have said a different rate after you got there, she said it before you went - that has to be an advantage of making the call?

I understand this. I think I was unclear in the original post. I respect the call rule as I have read the 100+ posts about PM'ing that are on the community every week. I try my luck with girls who tend to be online a lot and I certainly try not to waste time. I also ask is it alright if I call to make an appointment so they know who it is.

This was just my first time of blindly calling someone and it didn't go too well, as I felt I wasn't talking to that person. However I do agree that it was an advantage rather than arriving and finding out etc. I'm probably just a bit naive that a lot of time wasters call.

[mikeb]

Not sure why posters on this thread are fixated on txting?

He actually said he prefers to use PM first, he didn't mention he txts anyone?

He actually said "he grew up sending txts that I much prefer to use pm".

Correct. I find cold phone calls to be very awkward. I have never text a number!

[mikeb]

Dont really see why it should make you more anxious about phoning again. Another girl might answer the other girls work phone if the escort ur trying to contact is busy, asleep, in the shower etc, rather than miss the call. Obviouslythey will talk to each other in their native language to each other.

I understand that and thanks for your reply. I had booked a time with the girl when the other came on and abruptly said no. That was more of the issue!

[mikeb]

There's your probable explanation right there. Call her again another time. Remember, just cos ye exchange PMs doesn't mean you should expect priority or favouritism.

Never expected preferential treatment/favourtism due to PM's - I wouldn't even expect them to make a connection. Just the abrupt and very awkward nature of the call that kind of freaked me out. Put me off calling that person again? If that makes sense....Wouldn't expect it from such a highly rated lady.

[mikeb]

A pm is a good way to say hello and introduce yourself , that way the lady can check out who and the type of lady you have seen before so she will be more informed about you when you call.
After that you could send a quick text saying hi this is whoever if you are free at such a time I'd like to ring and confirm a booking.

The phone call tells so much for both parties but remember not all profile info is 100% accurate so be prepared to be surprised.


If it still doesn't work just be polite and move on.

Thank you for the backup on the PM and the great advice. I usually call after just to confirm it is me. I try not to waste anyones time with crap PM's.

[howardsteele]

Maybe it because you chatting to them in your white armour and helmet on White knight Howard as they probably miss understood you..
Now it time to go out and slay that dragon
Going to give me a hand mate as don't want to end up like this

last time i checked Mighty Leitrim was in Ireland.
I think it because they dont understand the accent, youd like to see howard dressed up in suit armour would you sweet guy?:

[mikeb]

Just before anyone says it again - I don't go on girls profiles that say "NO PM's" and intentionally send them PM's or texts. I am respectful of their wishes and time - If you asked the two girls (see, I'm new) I have visited in the past, I'm sure they would say the same.

I use this service maybe once every few months. Just sharing in the community section on how I had a bad experience with calling which I already am fearful of!

[gonzo76]

I'm still in the one year club in terms of using the website, but I don't know if it is because I grew up sending texts that I much prefer PM'ing girls first (even though everyone here says to call).

Anyway, I PM'd a very positively reviewed girl on this site, and she got back to me with her rates and saying to call. So I called and a girl answered, she started to debate the rate she said in the PM (dodge-y enough?) then started talking in a language I would not have understood to be here native one (if her nationality is correct) as I have lived in said country. Next minute she puts another girl on the phone who says 'I can't do this time hunny, sorry bye'.

You guys keep on saying call the girl but my anxiety of ringing is times 100x now!

I've never had a phone call go wrong. Keep it simple, like as if you were making a booking to visit a doctor or a dentist when you've never been to that doctor or dentist before.

Check time/availability, check rate but don't argue it, and verify directions and/or instructions.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

last time i checked Mighty Leitrim was in Ireland.
I think it because they dont understand the accent, youd like to see howard dressed up in suit armour would you sweet guy?:

No I but sure Rina and ladies would love see you dress in armour suit Howard but you could spend 30 min taking it off..
Maybe better to book a hour as then damn armour suit would waste all our time and worst session anyone would have meet a Escort..