Stunning vs Sex Appeal

[Curvaceous Kate]

Which is more important? It seems a lot of guys get stage fright when faced with a stunning lady and I am wondering if the same can be said when faced with a lady oozing sex appeal? With that in mind I can fully appreciate how being faced with a lady who is a stunner and has sex appeal must really knock your socks off.

Given the law of averages that most people will come under one category or the other, which is the one you would opt for giving the choice?

Just to clarify there is a difference between 'looking sexy' and 'being sexy'. The one is aesthetic, while the other is magnetic.

[westerner04]

Sex appeal every time. I want to see it screaming out at me in her eyes and her smile.

[MidlifeCrisis]

Agreed. Sex appeal and likeability are essential. Stunning looks are a bonus. I have been lucky enough to have found them all together a few times.

[clarelad]

Both would be nice but if I had to choose then its sex appeal every time.

Yep sex appeal for me

[circumcised guy]

If you meet a lady with both it's a bonus but it has to be sex appeal for me. I've been with some absolute stunners but they have had absolutely no sex appeal they just didn't turn me on and didn't even make much of an attempt either. Just to note none of the gorgeous ladies I have received are in that list I can assure you. They have all had both in abundance

[dragonjay]

Sex appeal definitely.

[collinsp]

oh, tough question. I'd have to say it depends on the mood. Sometimes I'm happier with who I'm looking at in that I wouldn't necessarily care about, or be looking for, sex appeal necessarily. Other times its all about the sex appeal. I'll have to vote C.

[alcatel]

I presume by stunning you mean physical beauty.
If that is accompanied only by coldness, distance, remoteness, disinterest, non-responsiveness, then it doesn't really amount to very much.