an analogy I would use would be to compare drinking to seeing escorts, you can drink and being an obnoxious irritating gimp or drink in moderation, you can visit escorts discreetly or you be a pathetic sycophantic gimp like petros.
as for the multiple accounts im probably one of a tiny minority who has never been aggressive or abusive to an escort on here yet have been banned more than most. I think its very important that alternative opinions are given. not all men have the same condescending attitude to women as yourself and others clearly do.