Friends who are they???

[Sherry]

This is more of an observational post than for discussion. But do we really, know who our friends are or do we care? I spent 3 hours talking to a stranger Saturday morning, took a break for 2 mins and the guy turned lots of people’s lives to shit, So I needed to know someone was there, so I texted a “friend” on here at some ungodly hour sitting in the cat, thinking I may get a response later, I had a response before I had closed the app. Later that day she contacted me and I helped her with advice she needed. I have made a few good “friends” on here one, who I probably met 12 times before I was registered and who with a little help and encouragement is no longer working at Escorting, but we still meet when we can for coffee or lunch. But I see so many people complaining about not getting answers to p.m. lately, if someone takes a few minutes to pm or mail someone then why (assuming it was not stupid or weird pm) can ladies not take a few of their “precious” seconds to reply. (Jeez the only one who answers mine is Lucky Lu)!! This seems to be only site it happens on, and I am on the usual social media sites and a few work related but people always answer!! Although obviously, this is only sex related site I am logged into. People seem to have no time for anyone any more, or is it just me? young aspiring “actress/model” in Starbucks other night, just said YOLO instead of thanks, she was very surprised when I replied “you sure got that right honey”. But you never know what knocks someone over edge maybe if I had spent 5 more mins with guy other night or not taken break?? Who knows. But be nice to people and treat them the way, you would like to be treated regardless of creed, colour, sexual persuasion, or race, fuck we are all human, not pieces of shit on your shoes. Anyway ob. Finished going for dinner and beers with two stunning ladies who always turn heads who I have been friends with for over 30 yrs., one who is more than a friend, and I am lucky to have. Night folks, stay safe.

i have a very good friend MYSELF!!!!!!
NEVER BE DISSAPOINTED 100%

[James f]

Jeez mate that it so sad to hear and so glad that you came out and say what been in your head for too long...Depression is serious problem and you know what chatting to a stranger is easier at times..Don't be afraid to chat to anyone as I say to make a friend you has to talk to stranger first...Pm me or someone you feel comfortable with and will listen to you and try help best we can...I am glad your mother a superstar and understand you and help you...Trust is hard but you have to start somewhere mate...Good luck and don't be afraid to pm anyone here...

Thanks but i never spoke to my mum about this. She sees someone regularly and takes medication herself. I always feared that if i told her she might get worse. When i talk or im around her i try to be happy.
I am feeling better. I try to keep myself busy all the time and it keeps my mind off it.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thanks but i never spoke to my mum about this. She sees someone regularly and takes medication herself. I always feared that if i told her she might get worse. When i talk or im around her i try to be happy.
I am feeling better. I try to keep myself busy all the time and it keeps my mind off it.

Sorry to hear about your mum but ALWAY remember mate their is always some one here as lot of good people here that will listen to you as you are not alone...You in a crowd of people but body there but not your mind not there and feel alone as everyone around you chatting...I know a little of what you going through and it horrendous as my issue small to compare to your issue...
Believe me I have a issue with Shyness as it bad believe me and it ladies i get shy with....It does get you down But i have ladies friend and i am comfortable around them but ladies i don't know my shyness is hell....But my problem only small to issue like depression and sickness as shyness can be treat easier.....Mate don't be afraid to speak up and say what you want to say as you been silence enough and shout or scream if it make you feel better as don't bottle it up as that only make it worse.....God praise that you going to be ok and like i said chat to me or anyone here and you only talk on what you feel comfortable mate....GOOD LUCK MATE....

[Petros]

I think if you are nice and try to help people you are not meant to have friends. Unfortunately i learned this the hard way and now i find it hard to trust anyone. I dont talk to anyone and it really fucked me up over the years. To the point where i started think about dying and the only thing stopping me was the thought of my mum finding out. The only person that genuinely still cares about me.
At times like Christmas and birthdays I'm reminded how lonely and worthless life can be.

Anyway my lack of friends is why I began seeing girls from this site. They helped me so much and ive nothing but respect for what they do. If they dont respond to PMs just pick up the phone and call them as you most of them get alot of time wasters.

James — I know exactly what you mean about being nice and helping people.... It's not that you are not meant to have friends, it's just that quite often those we help just don't appreciate our efforts but yet they become to expect our assistance as our normal duty. Some people see those who are nice and helpful as weak and so think they can take advantage. They can see the loneliness and use that for their gain.

What these people don't see is that being nice and helpful isn't being weak — it takes time, effort and courage to be nice and helpful — such a person is far from weak — without such people in this world it would be a really horrible place!

Our mothers are our backbone and you are right — they will back you up and care for you no matter what! You are lucky to have your mother in your corner. Unfortunately she won't be there in person forever — but she will be with you in your heart forever and you can't think of letting her down, either now or in the future! But the crazy thing is that she is not the only one who cares — there are other nice and helpful people out there and on here who also care! You may not see them, quite often they don't stand out from the crowd — but when push comes to shove they will be there for you! They will probably be the last people you'd expect too — that's what makes it crazy.

I know exactly how you feel at christmas and on birthdays — you see everyone else getting all excited about their birthday or about christmas. But when you are on your own those days are just like any other day of the week! No one wishes you a happy birthday or gives you a gift or offers to buy you a pint — then at christmas everyone goes mad shopping for presents etc. but none of them come your way — those presents are for other people — people they are trying to impress! Sure, it's easy to sit at a computer and order stuff off Amazon, wrap it up and give it to someone — way easier than being nice and helpful all your long and you need to remember this!

Don't get down — easier said than done I know! Just remember — there are plenty of people on here to talk to! You are not alone.

[James f]

Sorry to hear about your mum but ALWAY remember mate their is always some one here as lot of good people here that will listen to you as you are not alone...You in a crowd of people but body there but not your mind not there and feel alone as everyone around you chatting...I know a little of what you going through and it horrendous as my issue small to compare to your issue...
Believe me I have a issue with Shyness as it bad believe me and it ladies i get shy with....It does get you down But i have ladies friend and i am comfortable around them but ladies i don't know my shyness is hell....But my problem only small to issue like depression and sickness as shyness can be treat easier.....Mate don't be afraid to speak up and say what you want to say as you been silence enough and shout or scream if it make you feel better as don't bottle it up as that only make it worse.....God praise that you going to be ok and like i said chat to me or anyone here and you only talk on what you feel comfortable mate....GOOD LUCK MATE....

Thanks but I'm not very comfortable talking about it and I'm in a lot better place than I was last year. Only reason I shared this was to let some of the girls know that they are really appreciated and helping some people.

[Wolverine]

James f , your not alone in feeling low and let down by the world.
This place can be a haven.
Keep the chin up an focus on the good times ahead.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thanks but I'm not very comfortable talking about it and I'm in a lot better place than I was last year. Only reason I shared this was to let some of the girls know that they are really appreciated and helping some people.

Well glad to hear that James that you in better place and you don't have to talk about anything that you not comfortable with as that your business....
And i know ladies here know you are a gentleman and chin up and do thing that make you happy and happy punting for future mate....Good luck and always remember have fun in life......

[James f]

James — I know exactly what you mean about being nice and helping people.... It's not that you are not meant to have friends, it's just that quite often those we help just don't appreciate our efforts but yet they become to expect our assistance as our normal duty. Some people see those who are nice and helpful as weak and so think they can take advantage. They can see the loneliness and use that for their gain.

What these people don't see is that being nice and helpful isn't being weak — it takes time, effort and courage to be nice and helpful — such a person is far from weak — without such people in this world it would be a really horrible place!

Our mothers are our backbone and you are right — they will back you up and care for you no matter what! You are lucky to have your mother in your corner. Unfortunately she won't be there in person forever — but she will be with you in your heart forever and you can't think of letting her down, either now or in the future! But the crazy thing is that she is not the only one who cares — there are other nice and helpful people out there and on here who also care! You may not see them, quite often they don't stand out from the crowd — but when push comes to shove they will be there for you! They will probably be the last people you'd expect too — that's what makes it crazy.

I know exactly how you feel at christmas and on birthdays — you see everyone else getting all excited about their birthday or about christmas. But when you are on your own those days are just like any other day of the week! No one wishes you a happy birthday or gives you a gift or offers to buy you a pint — then at christmas everyone goes mad shopping for presents etc. but none of them come your way — those presents are for other people — people they are trying to impress! Sure, it's easy to sit at a computer and order stuff off Amazon, wrap it up and give it to someone — way easier than being nice and helpful all your long and you need to remember this!

Don't get down — easier said than done I know! Just remember — there are plenty of people on here to talk to! You are not alone.

I don't know why but people I considered friends screwed me over in some way so I stopped caring. Instead I focused so much on work and that's all I would do. I would work up to 60+ hours Monday to Friday alone. I would take work home on the weekends and spend all day in front of the computer. I took on a job I wasn't ready for. Just two years out of college and I took on a senior position. I was terrified about failing so I kept at it. I enjoy what i do but i just overdid it to fill a void in my life.

[Petros]

I don't know why but people I considered friends screwed me over in some way so I stopped caring. Instead I focused so much on work and that's all I would do. I would work up to 60+ hours Monday to Friday alone. I would take work home on the weekends and spend all day in front of the computer. I took on a job I wasn't ready for. Just two years out of college and I took on a senior position. I was terrified about failing so I kept at it. I enjoy what i do but i just overdid it to fill a void in my life.

Unfortunately it happens that people who we consider good friends are not really as good as we first thought and we only learn this when it is too late. Because we consider them friends we allow things to proceed further then we would with a complete stranger. This is where one really gets hurt!

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Well their is only one Escort I met out all I met so far that my shyness didn't bother me and felt instant comfortable and relax in her presence...

She doesn't tour from where she is and I told her she should as she a beautiful Spanish lady 28 years and we click moment I met her as we even drink Heineken together as she rather that then perfume or flowers....
Her name is Lucia Martinez but she just call Lucia.....She not touring in Ireland at moment as she back in Spain....I met her twice and all I can say she is a Stunner and black hair green eyes and fantastic figure...I wrote 2 reviews and if she would tour she get more.....Tom this is lady you should meet some day and on your list along with your 2 other favourite Escort you know who I am talking about K and M C D....