Nonsense to say other people - non sex workers - are not defined by our jobs. We teach our children to identify people by their jobs - Bob the builder Postman Pat Fireman Sam - need I go on? - and this is perpetuated all through life. "What do you do?" "Who do you work for?" are among the first and most socially acceptable questions asked when first getting to know someone.
Stop making out sex workers are some kind of special case