Appreciate what you have ...

[willie wacker]

You must be Alcatel in disguise. He was a fuckin gobshite as well and banned for good reason.

I love it when you talk dirty

[Rachel Divine]

Fair point about the way they conduct their business but I'd say it's not a one size fits all either as their is good and bad apples in all sectors let that be window ladies, street walkers, apparent top class escorts and different breeds of punters. But at the end of the day it's all about sex purchase

Some guys look only for time and companionship.

[Bongo]

You must be Alcatel in disguise. He was a fuckin gobshite as well and banned for good reason.

[Arthur Guinness]

Some guys look only for time and companionship.

I hear ya and that's ok and understandable and great that the guys have that opportunity.

I suppose what I was trying to say was that there is no need to put different labels on people as everyone is looking for some type of service that they feel is a comfort to them.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I hear ya and that's ok and understandable and great that the guys have that opportunity.

I suppose what I was trying to say was that there is no need to put different labels on people as everyone is looking for some type of service that they feel is a comfort to them.

My gut instinct is to differentiate by job satisfaction. As in can a woman sat in front of a window have as much job satisfaction as another woman working her own appointed times, within privacy in a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere of an apartment? Then! I recall a lady I met from the north of England who worked in a brothel and she preferred to do that, because she could clock on and clock off. She had friends to talk to when she wasn't busy and she felt safe.

You are right in the sense that both clients and sex workers want different things from the experience and their comfort zones can also vary greatly. When we start to judge other people by our own feelings and what feels right for us, we become Rachel Moran and the like.

Another example would be the fact that for me kissing is important, or it feels mechanical; where another friend of mine who no longer works would have hated to have to do that and much preferred the quick nature of working on the street.

As long as people are being treated with respect 'on both sides of the fence' and are staying within their own comfort zone who is anyone to judge?

[Dellboyo]

Some guys look only for time and companionship.

I can honestly believe that. Too much time spent online, the stresses of modern life.
Sometimes you just want to escape..either into the arms of a beautiful lady or just to spend time n the company of an attentive person. No different to a psychologist really.
A personal touch in an often impersonal world.
Thats what the do gooders dont see, they think its all about sex and trafficking, but its also about making a human connection, rather than a virtual one.
A smile, a shared laugh, an actual conversation, can do so much for someone’s mood

silly buggars are actually going to hurt more people than they "save"

[gillyland]

11 pages I ain't reading.

Hookers in windows are for drunken arseholes away on stag parties.
Neither hooker or punter have room for complaint coz that's the level you are at.

Its real in the gutter stuff.

dont be so fucking grumpy zilch, i can see you out there with your glasses all steamed up and pawing at the glass between you and a hot teen lady and shouting "miss, much is it for half hour, Time and Companionship"

[Arthur Guinness]

My gut instinct is to differentiate by job satisfaction. As in can a woman sat in front of a window have as much job satisfaction as another woman working her own appointed times, within privacy in a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere of an apartment? Then! I recall a lady I met from the north of England who worked in a brothel and she preferred to do that, because she could clock on and clock off. She had friends to talk to when she wasn't busy and she felt safe.

You are right in the sense that both clients and sex workers want different things from the experience and their comfort zones can also vary greatly. When we start to judge other people by our own feelings and what feels right for us, we become Rachel Moran and the like.

Another example would be the fact that for me kissing is important, or it feels mechanical; where another friend of mine who no longer works would have hated to have to do that and much preferred the quick nature of working on the street.

As long as people are being treated with respect 'on both sides of the fence' and are staying within their own comfort zone who is anyone to judge?

kissing is important for me too or it does feel very mechanical and I agree as long as both people are being treated with respect on both sides and enjoying themselves that is what's important and nothing else really matters

[Dellboyo]

kissing is important for me too or it does feel very mechanical and I agree as long as both people are being treated with respect on both sides and enjoying themselves that is what's important and nothing else really matters

you cant beat a good ol snog

[Arthur Guinness]

you cant beat a good ol snog

It would put a horn on a snowman lol