Helping PSNI and visa versa

[Curvaceous Kate]

yes i am saying "just deal with it"
time wasters exist in all aspects of business, window shoppers, women who try on 20 pairs of shoes and dont buy, taxis who dont turn up late, customers who tun up late or no shows at hairdressers, hell even patients seeing doctors with colds

you are not alone!

Absolutely not the same. At no point does the window shopper or the person trying on shoes announce that they are going to buy. They are simply doing what you do when you look at all the adverts or make a general enquiry. People being late is not malicious intent similar to people not going to the doctors, although anyone missing an appointment should let their surgery know they are not going to make it as that is common courtesy.

Here we are talking about many (if not all) deliberately and intentionally making firm bookings they have no intention of keeping with no other reason other than to get their jollies or obstruct that person from reaching their necessary earning potential for that day.

The fact that you can't tell the difference to me says a lot about you.

[spunki]

Absolutely not the same. At no point does the window shopper or the person trying on shoes announce that they are going to buy. They are simply doing what you do when you look at all the adverts or make a general enquiry. People being late is not malicious intent similar to people not going to the doctors, although anyone missing an appointment should let their surgery know they are not going to make it as that is common courtesy.

Here we are talking about many (if not all) deliberately and intentionally making firm bookings they have no intention of keeping with no other reason other than to get their jollies or obstruct that person from reaching their necessary earning potential for that day.

The fact that you can't tell the difference to me says a lot about you.

or maybe I just cant comprehend why anyone would wake up and decide "i know, lets annoy some hookers by booking and then not showing up!"

if you are getting a lot its obviously designed to hurt your business

how many a day do you get ffs?

[Curvaceous Kate]

or maybe I just cant comprehend why anyone would wake up and decide "i know, lets annoy some hookers by booking and then not showing up!"

if you are getting a lot its obviously designed to hurt your business

how many a day do you get ffs?

It's not just me Spunki, it's rife. Sex workers of all types (no one cares about gender or sexuality) get these people wasting their time every day and it's on the increase. You have to have eyes in the back of your head.

The worst ones are the ones that seem genuine and make one real booking and from then on in pester you to be their boyfriend and want the rest of the time for free, as they believe that they were better than anyone else we ever met. Constant texts and calls and pushing for 'fun'. Don't they realise that no commitment and fun is what we offer for our job. Why on earth would we want to do that for free with a client? That's like selling someone a car and then bugging them to give you another one for free because you were such a good customer. It's not going to happen.

You also have guys wanting to 'save us' and give us a 'better life'. What they think they are offering I do not know?

[gillyland]

You don't know me gillyland. Not one bit

and only got to the spring to change that

[giggs]

Evidently in these cases it would be one that has not changed their number. You would be surprised how many think that giving it a few weeks will mean you have no idea who they are. I have numbers in my phone over a year old. I leave little notes by the number so if I am in a devilish mood I can directly tell them that they have wasted my time before and why should I see them now? They are like, no that wasn't me? So I ask them how many people use their phone and they may say, 'It's a work hone' and I will ask them why on earth they would use a work phone to book a sex worker?

Whichever way it goes, I don't see them or they pay up a deposit.

People are strange, when you're a stranger.

ok if them rascally rascals are caught out like that, they just say fuck this, I'll get another number and ring back tomorrow and put on my best Cork accent and tell her I travelled all this way to see you, SHE'LL BE IMPRESSED YOU MADE THE EFFORT and welcomes you with open arms and legs.

As for me and a deposit, I like to leave a rather large deposit at the end of our session

[Curvaceous Kate]

ok if them rascally rascals are caught out like that, they just say fuck this, I'll get another number and ring back tomorrow and put on my best Cork accent and tell her I travelled all this way to see you, SHE'LL BE IMPRESSED YOU MADE THE EFFORT and welcomes you with open arms and legs.

As for me and a deposit, I like to leave a rather large deposit at the end of our session

I actually had someone do that a couple of Weeks ago. He drove all the way from Cork for an hour and a half booking (which he paid for in sterling) and then drove all the way home. Nowt as queer as folk is there. All those lovely ladies over there and he does that and coming over to an area that has law issues too. I can't say I wasn't flattered, but they didn't get any discount.

You will always get some who will change there number and some who have several numbers and randomly use them. Some really do have that little of a life that they will take the time to do that, but for many the kick is making the call and as there are no real consequences, why bother changing the sim? Plenty of sex workers to play up if one doesn't answer you just move on to the next. It's all too easy.

[giggs]

I actually had someone do that a couple of Weeks ago. He drove all the way from Cork for an hour and a half booking (which he paid for in sterling) and then drove all the way home. Nowt as queer as folk is there. All those lovely ladies over there and he does that and coming over to an area that has law issues too. I can't say I wasn't flattered, but they didn't get any discount.

You will always get some who will change there number and some who have several numbers and randomly use them. Some really do have that little of a life that they will take the time to do that, but for many the kick is making the call and as there are no real consequences, why bother changing the sim? Plenty of sex workers to play up if one doesn't answer you just move on to the next. It's all too easy.

Yeah but the Cork guys are in a world of their own, god love them, they dont even know the law is in force there and with most probably thinking its part of the Republic anyway,
I change my number every few months but thats to stop the escorts calling me and sending me texts that they are back in town and want to see me and my big friend again. I'm a one stop, one visit man only

[FatBastard]

Yeah but the Cork guys are in a world of their own, god love them, they dont even know the law is in force there and with most probably thinking its part of the Republic anyway,
I change my number every few months but thats to stop the escorts calling me and sending me texts that they are back in town and want to see me and my big friend again. I'm a one stop, one visit man only

'Extreme call blocker' on Android. If the number isn't in your contacts list messages get automatically deleted and calls get rejected by answering and hanging up, so they can't get to voicemail and it just appears to be a dead number.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Not sure about phoning the police about anything except if you have been robbed or abused. I have had the same phone number for a very long time (not a punting phone.) And when I have finished with someone or don't want to talk to them again I delete there name and replace it with 'Don't Answer' That way I don't answer and I don't have the stress in woundering why that person is calling me!

Ah you may have less ex's than there are timewasters to be fair lol.

I was not being serious. I have a natural distrust of the Police or any other member of the law enforcement and never found them to be as helpful as they would like you to think they are. Better to resolve your own problems where possible.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Yeah but the Cork guys are in a world of their own, god love them, they dont even know the law is in force there and with most probably thinking its part of the Republic anyway,
I change my number every few months but thats to stop the escorts calling me and sending me texts that they are back in town and want to see me and my big friend again. I'm a one stop, one visit man only

The hussies!!! lol