First of all, no girl will take a bus to Dublin for a "meet" and go back on tour to Limerick, unless it was an overnight... Was it an overnight?
Second of all, no punter should make plans like travelling or booking hotels unless he is 100% sure of arrangements in this biz. 100%!!!
Thirdly, she has a lotttt more to lose if this is a waster than you do. I dont see your gracious commitment if it was for real...
Lastly, your response to a non native speaker, to a text that was (if this was going ahead) prolly a tester.. "Im on the bus now.. on the bus... Is this happening???? ".. You respond "I dont get that..."!!!! I dont get that to a foreigner... does that mean "Huh, what do you mean?".. or "I dont want you to come"... or what?
In any case, even a call out to a location in the same city is a dodgy one, unless you are know, or VERY persuasive..