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    Ideally should a client stick to one escort and be faithful to her (so to soeak)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clueless View Post
    Ideally should a client stick to one escort and be faithful to her (so to soeak)


    If that is what a client wants to do, let him off. There is no "should" or "shouldn't". It is my opinion that escorts don't give a hoot if you are seeing her alone or not... they care not a jot!
    escorts are more likely to become bothered if you have a fixation on then.. as if you think you are in a relationship with them .. The only relationship 99.999% of clients have with an escort is a business one. There are exceptions but they are very rare.... in my opinion.

    .. and be faithful to her .... right....... ok.........
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    Escort is not your girlfriend, buddy. It's just a fantasy. You spent few minutes with them and your wallet gets emptied and you have to move on to the next girl if you can afford. Most even don't like punters calling them pet names like Hun, sweetie. They are business ladies. Though few may enjoy the sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laapd View Post
    Escort is not your girlfriend, buddy. It's just a fantasy. You spent few minutes with them and your wallet gets emptied and you have to move on to the next girl if you can afford. Most even don't like punters calling them pet names like Hun, sweetie. They are business ladies. Though few may enjoy the sex.


    Good point lapd. A little out of character given your usual whiteknighting

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    Quote Originally Posted by laapd View Post
    Escort is not your girlfriend, buddy. It's just a fantasy. You spent few minutes with them and your wallet gets emptied and you have to move on to the next girl if you can afford. Most even don't like punters calling them pet names like Hun, sweetie. They are business ladies. Though few may enjoy the sex.
    It goes without saying that an escort is not your girlfriend - in the same way your regular barber is not your boyfriend but you still return to him for that service. Sticking with one escort (I understand that there are many punters that do this) allows a bit of certainty and ease of access in your punting life- I.e. You do not have to wait around all over the city trying to follow obscure instructions to find her location etc). I would contend that 'getting involved' with an escort would only cause one nothing but problems - so it should be avoided!!

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    Personally I've always thought that it is better that a client has a couple of Escorts they see, as this can stop emotions from running too high and also if you have a fav the one doesn't do, you may get that covered with the other. However, for some people 'variety' is not the answer and if they feel happy with one person that they see and they are able to keep emotions in check, then why not? The only problem with that is when the sex worker moves on and they are left alone again. At least if you have a second person to see you have time to find someone else without being on your own.

    I've a couple of clients I have been seeing for over a year that have said they will likely retire from seeing Escorts when I retire. I do take it as a compliment, but I would rather they were happy and found a partner or had someone else to connect with. Life is for sharing, however that might be.

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    If it is understood it is a professional relationship it can be great.
    I still see my first ever client who does not know he is my first ever client
    I see lots of clients long term I make it very clear we are professional friends and if anyone tries to get freebies by asking to be my boyfriend that is goodbye.

    Sadly some try the "but I only see you dear" line to get owo or bb

    Lost 3 what I considered excellent clients over that Im not daft or putting myself or my clients at risk, i do what is on my favs for everyone

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaldTrump View Post
    Good point lapd. A little out of character given your usual whiteknighting
    Tut, tut, tut, it must be true what they say about you Donald, you don't actually read things properly and your attention to detail is extremely poor. if you can't tell the difference between lapd and laapd then fuck knows what part of Korea your going to drop that bomb.
    Hilary for the White House!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clueless View Post
    Ideally should a client stick to one escort and be faithful to her (so to soeak)
    If you start thinking this way, make the offer "I'll stop seeing other people if you will."

    The answer should let you know where things stand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate View Post
    Personally I've always thought that it is better that a client has a couple of Escorts they see, as this can stop emotions from running too high and also if you have a fav the one doesn't do, you may get that covered with the other. However, for some people 'variety' is not the answer and if they feel happy with one person that they see and they are able to keep emotions in check, then why not? The only problem with that is when the sex worker moves on and they are left alone again. At least if you have a second person to see you have time to find someone else without being on your own.

    I've a couple of clients I have been seeing for over a year that have said they will likely retire from seeing Escorts when I retire. I do take it as a compliment, but I would rather they were happy and found a partner or had someone else to connect with. Life is for sharing, however that might be.
    Wise words. I see no harm in having a few trusted regulars, as you say, if one lady is out of town, then you have a sound "backup" plan.
    There is a lot to be said for regulars on both sides of the coin.
    The initial awkwardness is gone and you are both aware of the boundaries and likes and dislikes of each other.
    The lady knows she can expect no problems and even look forward to a good and easy time, with someone she may even click with sexually and knows they will be clean and respectful.

    I disagree with laapd somewhats over cynical attitude. Yes its business but I believe a genuine friendly rapport can be built not unlike in many other business's.
    I have been lucky to encounter this a few times and have enjoyed personal time without it getting silly or even sex involved.
    As you ladies are fond of saying, you are still human beings, and a casual friendship can develop in the form of long chats, friendly advice, dinners, helping fix that leaky tap etc etc.

    all this is of course mutual and unforced, and develops naturally, in much the same way it does with my business clients

    at the end of the day, it all depends on the two people involved

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