Originally Posted by
FatBastard
It's difficult enough for me to pick up the phone to begin with. I'm seriously introverted, to the point that if someone asks 'any requests' when making a booking, I clam up and can't say it. And, as I'm fat fuck, I'm already on edge enough that the person would take a look at me out their door and tell me to fuck right off (thankfully that's never happened) - so I always keep it polite and respectful - because that's all I hope for in return. I'm not some big shot with a big wallet that can be out doing this every week, I've saw 3 ladies over 5 years for a total of around 10-12 visits, and genuinely still shit myself when I get the final text to 'come on in' even with someone I've saw recently.
As for the lateness, exactly as you said they way I worded the review I finished with 'I hope we can work it out for next time' or something like that. But now? It'd make me want to stick to those I've saw before and not dip my toe any further in the water.
And it's not that I don't get that shit can come up last minute. It happens, but there was over an hours worth of '2 more minutes call at X' then no answer when we could have easily left it and rescheduled - no issue. I had an appointment booked with a popular woman on here a few weeks ago but found out a couple of days before I was being shipped out of the country for work - so I made my apologies as soon as I knew and the door appears to be still open when shit settles down and I can make a firm booking to see her again. Other than that one time I cancelled I've never once been late or fucked around on the day.
Actually come to think of it, the last lady I saw we'd arranged for a Tuesday appointment. She couldn't make it. Rinse and repeat on Wednesday, and Thursday and we didn't get to meet until the Friday. Did I still see her? Of course, and it was a great time. It's not like I'd want someone on their knees begging forgiveness - just the basic courtesy of 'can't make it how about X time instead.'