Death grip syndrome

[TonyB]

I'd love to have this problem and be able to continue for 30 mins in a 30 min appointment.

My problem is that sometimes I'm to quick off the mark lol

The trick is to go see one lady and then go see another.
If necessary repeat daily

[Arthur Guinness]

The trick is to go see one lady and then go see another.
If necessary repeat daily

Honestly I already found a bit of a cure. 3 pints of Heineken chills me out and slows down shooting the load lol

[alcatel]

Honestly I already found a bit of a cure. 3 pints of Heineken chills me out and slows down shooting the load lol

You two timer.
Guiness won't like to hear you're straying.

[Calvados]

I'm not even 30!

Also its not that I can't ejaculate, a firm hand (mine or otherwise) is no problem

That's terrible, you can't continue without trying to treat it.

If you live near Dublin, I recommend Kate McCabe who is a sex psychotherapist, http://www.katemccabe.ie/home.

She accepts self referrals and is definitely worth a try.

I'm sure there are other sex psychotherapists around the country also.

[Arthur Guinness]

You two timer.
Guiness won't like to hear you're straying.

Ha ha ha it's only for the summer the auld Guinness is a bit heavy in the warm weather lol

[Arthur Guinness]

That's terrible, you can't continue without trying to treat it.

If you live near Dublin, I recommend Kate McCabe who is a sex psychotherapist, http://www.katemccabe.ie/home.

She accepts self referrals and is definitely worth a try.

I'm sure there are other sex psychotherapists around the country also.

Is she hot to look at lol
It would be cool to go see a sex therapist and end up giving her one lol
Bit of a kinky fantasy that

[Arthur Guinness]

Wank off & stop just before you climax. And if it's the serious problem you say it should help but will not work immediately especially if there is more then an hour before you hook up with the girl. Failing that finish your self off. Anyway a lot of girls that know there stuff will stick a finger up your hole & you will come if you want to or not. I have been in your position being a serial wanker. But I would not be able to abstain for very long. Hopes this helps a bit.

Ohhh the old finger in the bum ya lol that would drive the goo out of any man rapid

[PatTheBaker]

New here but best of luck man. I hope things work out.

[Dom Dunn]

Cheers for that bud, I think that's a good call.



I need to meditate or somehow train myself not to be thinking "Holy shit she's up there cowgirl this is hot as fuck look at that body look at that face omg this is great why am I not climaxing why am I not getting close FUCK whats wrong with me why is this not working I almost blew when she put the condom on what the fuck is wrong with me SHIT I'm out of steam need to stop soon this is humialiating" the entire time

I think you need to chill out and relax. You probably need a longer period of time with the woman than you are currently spending. Perhaps a couple of hours and slowly build up. I often find it difficult to cum inside and it is usually because I am fighting the clock and so I withdraw and get finished off outside. One aid I have found very helpful is to get a small vibrator inserted into your butt before you enter her. This normally makes it easier to ejaculate and can enhance the orgasm too.

[FatBastard]

I think you need to chill out and relax. You probably need a longer period of time with the woman than you are currently spending. Perhaps a couple of hours and slowly build up. I often find it difficult to cum inside and it is usually because I am fighting the clock and so I withdraw and get finished off outside. One aid I have found very helpful is to get a small vibrator inserted into your butt before you enter her. This normally makes it easier to ejaculate and can enhance the orgasm too.

Been there 2-3 hrs (longer in a couple of instanses)

That's terrible, you can't continue without trying to treat it.

If you live near Dublin, I recommend Kate McCabe who is a sex psychotherapist, http://www.katemccabe.ie/home.

She accepts self referrals and is definitely worth a try.

I'm sure there are other sex psychotherapists around the country also.

Fuckin hell, how did I not know such a thing exists?

http://www.relateni.org/psycho-sexual_therapy_services

Let's see what the pro's say, and I'll keep this updated... if anyone cares enough