Escort been abuse

[Jorge]

Conor McGregor is a pussy, its very easy to get him to submit

Well If you think that Mc Gregor is a pussy I will take it over no probs..

[Dom Dunn]

I think it is safe to assume that a lot of clients appearing after midnight will either be drunk or will have consumed alcohol. Hence the risk of an appointment turning nasty will increase. Hence girls who work late into the wee hours need to be extra careful about accepting appointments. As has been pointed out it may not be easy to detect if a punter is drunk until after they have entered the bedroom. Now may I say first of all many drunk are friendly and when handled tactfully rarely cause trouble. However, many people can quickly become argumentative and potentially violent under the influence when something happens that they don't like. Maybe the guy in the incident always intended to grab his money back or maybe because of the effects of alcohol was unable to perform and blamed the girl. Should she have given him his money back. I would on balance say NO. If she provided a service she deserved to be paid. The fact that this scumbag went on to assault her retrospectively leads one to believe that it would have been wiser to give him his money back and maybe that is the way many would view it.
I am not sure when this incident took place but I have heard about 2 similar events in recent months. This clearly demonstrates the perilous circumstances under which most escorts operate and it seems that the level of danger is increased for those working late at night. Finally it would be great to see the vile C@@t in this incident jailed!!!

[Dom Dunn]

Reading through this thread, general gist is that seeing clients at that time of night is asking for trouble and some reasons put forward as to why she might be working at those hours. In my experience the only sexworkers that I've met working those hours either smelled of drink or had small children and could only work when she had a baby sitter.

Sorry but you are talking from a very narrow experience base if that is your opinion. I know a number of girls who don't fall into the categories you mention but choose to work late because after they have paid high rent and covered expenses they need to make a profit and have to take the risk. What I would like to see is far better protection for these girls and boys which given the current political climate in this so called republic they are unlikely to get.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

I never work late, I finish at 9pm. I'm of the opinion that to work late would bring trouble & unwanted attention to my door. When guys have had a drink, they talk louder, may not understand your directions, could knock on the wrong door, generally be indiscreet. It's a risk that I'm not willing to take, unfortunately some girls do take or have no other option but to take these risks.

I'm sure that many people have a drink, myself included, & they are not violent. However, alcohol is stimulant, if you are feeling great it will boost your mood, if you're feeling like a bear with a sore head, it will increase your downer.

Very often, when I switch my phones back on when I get up on a Saturday or Sunday morning, there is at least 1 abusive message or text. This is to me, is clear proof that my assumptions of 'late night callers' tends to be correct. If they think that it's ok to be abusive on the phone, what would they be capable of if I accepted their business?

Sandy x

[Dom Dunn]

I never work late, I finish at 9pm. I'm of the opinion that to work late would bring trouble & unwanted attention to my door. When guys have had a drink, they talk louder, may not understand your directions, could knock on the wrong door, generally be indiscreet. It's a risk that I'm not willing to take, unfortunately some girls do take or have no other option but to take these risks.

I'm sure that many people have a drink, myself included, & they are not violent. However, alcohol is stimulant, if you are feeling great it will boost your mood, if you're feeling like a bear with a sore head, it will increase your downer.

Very often, when I switch my phones back on when I get up on a Saturday or Sunday morning, there is at least 1 abusive message or text. This is to me, is clear proof that my assumptions of 'late night callers' tends to be correct. If they think that it's ok to be abusive on the phone, what would they be capable of if I accepted their business?

Sandy x

Its good that you can make that choice but not everybody can. Also as you point out many escorts can't work late at night even with clients who have not been drinking as it will draw attention from people in adjoining apartments.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Its good that you can make that choice but not everybody can. Also as you point out many escorts can't work late at night even with clients who have not been drinking as it will draw attention from people in adjoining apartments.

You're assuming that the sex worker is resident at the place or uses it often. If the sex worker is only there for a few days they may take more risks, as they don't have to worry about what happens there after them. This is one of the reasons why I stopped touring. I became more worried about what other people had done that I had no control over. You also get some guys 'popping over' when drunk and knocking on the doors loudly with no booking, as they know the place well. I had this happen to me in one apartment I worked in at Sligo and consequently stopped working there. I had never met the man before, so he was just chancing his arm that someone would see him.

[Dom Dunn]

You're assuming that the sex worker is resident at the place or uses it often. If the sex worker is only there for a few days they may take more risks, as they don't have to worry about what happens there after them. This is one of the reasons why I stopped touring. I became more worried about what other people had done that I had no control over. You also get some guys 'popping over' when drunk and knocking on the doors loudly with no booking, as they know the place well. I had this happen to me in one apartment I worked in at Sligo and consequently stopped working there. I had never met the man before, so he was just chancing his arm that someone would see him.

Your are right and yet another example of the type of thing that happens when you have to operate within an industry which is illegal or on the fringes of the law

[gillyland]

Well If you think that Mc Gregor is a pussy I will take it over no probs..

I know he's a Pussy, just give me a half hour with him to make him my Bitch

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Well she did basically rip the guy off, should have gave him his money back

First I know your wrong to say that...As first she did give him a service even if it was against her consent...She was afraid to say no as she thought he would hit her there and then and secondly what give him right to attack a lady who only try to make a living...I know all this as she told me and when she did she was crying and that reason I felt bad about coming in for service..And first few words she said to me when met her was I hope you are a nice guy and then told me her story...Believe me that lady was in fear after that and even during my meeting she was nervous and I am one usually nervous but she relax after short time after...Sad thing I never got chance to meet her again as she move on...So treat all Escort and lady with Respect...

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thanks to all who reply to thread as it good to know that people care about Escort been abuse and also domestic abuse as it happen far too often too...