Originally Posted by
Curvaceous Kate
Think of it from our point of view. Now there is a unknown person who has the exact address of where the person is working. As far as they are concerned you are a location seeker and never intended to see her, but get you jollies by making her worried for the rest of her time in that location. It's a shitty thing to do and you should be ashamed of yourself.
The right thing to do would have been to go there and see for yourself and simply tell the person why if you felt the need to leave at that point (ie not the person you thought you were seeing).
My question to you is that this is going to be the case every time you see someone you have not met before. You have no choice but to go through this and if it matters that much to you then take the steps that others do and use the information available to you to find out as much as you can about the person you want to meet.
What you did was not just cowardly, but unforgivable, as the person you mucked about may have been too scared to see anyone else after you.
The least you could do is apologies to them and let them know they are safe.