Cancelling an appointment at the last minute

[Curvaceous Kate]

Can you point me in the direction of somebody on here that hasn't done a stupid thing?

*coughs*

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the replies. I’ll try to clear up some of the confusion as best I can.

Kate mentions that this girl is terrified because I have her exact address. I don’t have her exact address. She said she’d send it, but she never did.

I am aware of the hassle cancellations are for an escort. That’s why I posted, and I made a point of mentioning how aware I am of just what hassle it is in the post.

I had no problem with the location. The thread has gone off-topic about that. The location was fine.

Some people have said that I didn’t explain why I cancelled. I did.



Some people have suggested that I go in anyway, and if something’s fishy I remind whoever’s there that I’m under no obligation to buy and turn around again. But the reason I’m concerned about someone else doing the talking is because I’m worried the girl is working against her will.

It could be that traffickers will be accepting of a client’s buyer’s remorse on discovering a trafficking situation. But it’s unlikely, isn’t it? Therefore, if I send the girl a shitty excuse the traffickers think I’m just someone who shat himself and she’s not in (even more) trouble.

This website is (correctly, imo) plastered with anti-trafficking ads. If anyone thinks I should take further steps about my concerns I’m all ears.

Some people have said I should apologise to the girl. Isn’t that what this thread is? An apology?

Thanks again for all your replies. I’ve learned a lot.

It's not an apology, it's a debate. If someone let me down I would not expect to come on here to find out what the problem was and if this was the only way to do it, then a private message would have been better. As it is you have actually just re-affirmed your belief that something fishy was going on, so in what way exactly could that be classed as a heart felt apology?

In your original message you said that she was going to text you the last details of her address for you and then you cancelled. You didn't make it clear that you cancelled before she had a chance to do this. You also have not actually made any clear reason for why you got worried that she was not going to be the person you would meet. Had she no reviews? Was she new to the site? Had her voice changed from one call to the next? I did not say she was terrified by the way. I said she could be and it is possible that she stopped work due to your actions. I'm glad you didn't have the exact number, but believe me, on the days where there are 2 or 3 of you one after the other, it would test the patience of a saint and many would stop work, simply because they had lost the will to live. You should try being the hostess with the mostess when you feel cross inside.

I also notice you are writing with double spacing. I've not seen that for a while. It reminds me of someone.

[MidlifeCrisis]

What Kate said - the bit you highlighted is not an explanation. We still have no idea why you started expecting to meet someone different, and it sounds as if you haven't apologised.

[duppyc0nqueror]

I have rarely cancelled an appointment at the last minute. But it has happened & I've been told to get aids and die. I only mention this because genuine reasons do come up and we are not all time wasters and it has happened so rarely. Where do you think I would rather be?

Wow. You must be doing something right to inspire such passion.

[annabel taylor]

My lips are sealed. Still hope to meet her someday.

Sounds like a bitch... I'm sure she make it up to ya anyway

[annabel taylor]

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the replies. I’ll try to clear up some of the confusion as best I can.

Kate mentions that this girl is terrified because I have her exact address. I don’t have her exact address. She said she’d send it, but she never did.

I am aware of the hassle cancellations are for an escort. That’s why I posted, and I made a point of mentioning how aware I am of just what hassle it is in the post.

I had no problem with the location. The thread has gone off-topic about that. The location was fine.

Some people have said that I didn’t explain why I cancelled. I did.



Some people have suggested that I go in anyway, and if something’s fishy I remind whoever’s there that I’m under no obligation to buy and turn around again. But the reason I’m concerned about someone else doing the talking is because I’m worried the girl is working against her will.

It could be that traffickers will be accepting of a client’s buyer’s remorse on discovering a trafficking situation. But it’s unlikely, isn’t it? Therefore, if I send the girl a shitty excuse the traffickers think I’m just someone who shat himself and she’s not in (even more) trouble.

This website is (correctly, imo) plastered with anti-trafficking ads. If anyone thinks I should take further steps about my concerns I’m all ears.

Some people have said I should apologise to the girl. Isn’t that what this thread is? An apology?

Thanks again for all your replies. I’ve learned a lot.

You just need to forget punting

[EnglishAlex]

Rob Roy McGregor lol I hope Mary is keeping well

[LuckyLu]

hello,

I am just pasting the link here, if this helps: https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...loitation.html

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the replies. I’ll try to clear up some of the confusion as best I can.

Kate mentions that this girl is terrified because I have her exact address. I don’t have her exact address. She said she’d send it, but she never did.

I am aware of the hassle cancellations are for an escort. That’s why I posted, and I made a point of mentioning how aware I am of just what hassle it is in the post.

I had no problem with the location. The thread has gone off-topic about that. The location was fine.

Some people have said that I didn’t explain why I cancelled. I did.



Some people have suggested that I go in anyway, and if something’s fishy I remind whoever’s there that I’m under no obligation to buy and turn around again. But the reason I’m concerned about someone else doing the talking is because I’m worried the girl is working against her will.

It could be that traffickers will be accepting of a client’s buyer’s remorse on discovering a trafficking situation. But it’s unlikely, isn’t it? Therefore, if I send the girl a shitty excuse the traffickers think I’m just someone who shat himself and she’s not in (even more) trouble.

This website is (correctly, imo) plastered with anti-trafficking ads. If anyone thinks I should take further steps about my concerns I’m all ears.

Some people have said I should apologise to the girl. Isn’t that what this thread is? An apology?

Thanks again for all your replies. I’ve learned a lot.

[Best Before]

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the replies. I’ll try to clear up some of the confusion as best I can.

Kate mentions that this girl is terrified because I have her exact address. I don’t have her exact address. She said she’d send it, but she never did.

I am aware of the hassle cancellations are for an escort. That’s why I posted, and I made a point of mentioning how aware I am of just what hassle it is in the post.

I had no problem with the location. The thread has gone off-topic about that. The location was fine.

Some people have said that I didn’t explain why I cancelled. I did.



Some people have suggested that I go in anyway, and if something’s fishy I remind whoever’s there that I’m under no obligation to buy and turn around again. But the reason I’m concerned about someone else doing the talking is because I’m worried the girl is working against her will.

It could be that traffickers will be accepting of a client’s buyer’s remorse on discovering a trafficking situation. But it’s unlikely, isn’t it? Therefore, if I send the girl a shitty excuse the traffickers think I’m just someone who shat himself and she’s not in (even more) trouble.

This website is (correctly, imo) plastered with anti-trafficking ads. If anyone thinks I should take further steps about my concerns I’m all ears.

Some people have said I should apologise to the girl. Isn’t that what this thread is? An apology?

Thanks again for all your replies. I’ve learned a lot.

You, managed to make the waters merkier!!

Thanks for clearing that up...

[philipkntz]

Sounds like a bitch... I'm sure she make it up to ya anyway

Not yet, but I'll catch up with the busty bitch some day.