Irisherin27 (15-07-16)
bHi Kate,
No, I have gleaned something from reading the forums. I was simply asking whether someone was up for meeting before an appointment, or becoming just friends with a guy from dublin.
I think you're right though, if I don't focus on my studies I might end up an escort myself!
Having qualifications doesn't dictate if you will be an sex worker or not. Many of us have very good qualifications. However if you do feel like you may be going down that route you will need to be prepared to be gay for pay.
The thing is with being a sex worker, is that most of us are pretty sociable creatures and make friends pretty easily. I would imagine that most of us have friends already and the majority would not choose to meet up with a total stranger and blur the lines between friendship and work, as that is often when problems start, like over staying and under paying and taking advantage.
If you had been reading any of the forum posts over the last year, you would have likely seen many that showed this is not really an option. That does not mean that a client can't become a friend (as we are all human), but it tends to be that the sex stops when this is established and the client/escort relations ceases to exist. I'm guessing that isn't really your motive here?
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I think it is possible to be honest. It is rare though.
If you read the forums here you can see that on occasion clients do become friends with escorts and in some cases remain clients on that basis. For example they might do favors for the escort or do something as simple as provide local information or advice.
Sometimes they become friends but cease the client/escort relationship and just socialise in a platonic way - this seems to make both happy I gather.
In other cases clients remain friends with an escort when the escort retires - from a distance - perhaps in some occasions still meeting up.
Some escorts become confidents of the client and end up supporting them - as an escort - morally. This can lead to friendship and the client/escort relationship ends and a platonic one begins.
The above I have also heard from escorts themselves but again I stress it is rare. Also the friendship always comes from the client meeting the escort as an escort first - never meeting the escort as a friend first.
Hope this helps.
Last edited by robothecop; 15-07-16 at 18:13.
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