Sexual Intercourse.

[bollocks]

Everything but the above interests me...............massage..........domination,,,,,,,,,,,and all other sexual services...................but somehow


not intercourse.


Am I queer?


I only like females,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,anything wrong with that.

Do I need to see a sexual therapist?

Bollox

[ClarkKent]

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[SteveB]

Not a good idea for you to see a therapist.
Remember when you rang the Samaritans and told the guy all your troubles and the poor Samaritan committed suicide?

[SteveB]

Not interested in intercourse?

Not surprising with a sunburned cock...................

[philipkntz]

I sort of know what you mean. When I plan a visit to an escort, penetrative sex is practically the last thing on my mind. Domination is very last though. Personally, when I fantasize about it, I prefer to cum on a ladies boobs. Nice safe sex with very little chance of my swimmers hitting their target.
I've visited escorts and not had intercourse several times, been too busy fooling around. For me sometimes sex seems like a step too far, especially if the escort is much younger than me, I feel that if I go as far as sex I might feel guilty afterwards. Though on other appointments, it just feels right and I know that sex is inevitable as soon as the door is opened.
Since last Christmas, 2 of the youngest escorts that I visited, insisted on asking why I did not want to have sex with them (different appointments). One was quite happy with my answer and admitted that if there wasn't money involved, that I'd never make it to her bedroom. The other, who I was visiting for the second time in a week, changed the condom I was wearing with her mouth, then jammed herself down on me reverse cowgirl style, saying "try this and if you tell me you don't like it, I'll stop" and that was a lady that has fake verified photos, and several 5 star reviews that don't mention the fake pics. I guess they all want to go back for more.

[LuckyLu]

sorry if I am commenting on where I don't have much experience as I do not see escorts and my involvement does not help, but...
just wanted to share, that in my private life I have realised a long time ago, that there is a lot to do with the head.
If the head / heart is not into it, I could be repulsed by the idea of an intercourse for years. (seriously, years).

I sort of know what you mean. When I plan a visit to an escort, penetrative sex is practically the last thing on my mind. Domination is very last though. Personally, when I fantasize about it, I prefer to cum on a ladies boobs. Nice safe sex with very little chance of my swimmers hitting their target.
I've visited escorts and not had intercourse several times, been too busy fooling around. For me sometimes sex seems like a step too far, especially if the escort is much younger than me, I feel that if I go as far as sex I might feel guilty afterwards. Though on other appointments, it just feels right and I know that sex is inevitable as soon as the door is opened.
Since last Christmas, 2 of the youngest escorts that I visited, insisted on asking why I did not want to have sex with them (different appointments). One was quite happy with my answer and admitted that if there wasn't money involved, that I'd never make it to her bedroom. The other, who I was visiting for the second time in a week, changed the condom I was wearing with her mouth, then jammed herself down on me reverse cowgirl style, saying "try this and if you tell me you don't like it, I'll stop" and that was a lady that has fake verified photos, and several 5 star reviews that don't mention the fake pics. I guess they all want to go back for more.

[Walshie]

sorry if I am commenting on where I don't have much experience as I do not see escorts and my involvement does not help, but...
just wanted to share, that in my private life I have realised a long time ago, that there is a lot to do with the head.
If the head / heart is not into it, I could be repulsed by the idea of an intercourse for years. (seriously, years).

I Agree lulu, its all in the head, the one on your shoulders, I regret to say I didnt come in my last two visits to the escorts, I'm a young guy too but as soon as I got home I had the best climaxes with Chow Mein, I suppose Its who you know, i'm use to her and feel more comfortable in her presence

[bettercallsaul]

I Agree lulu, its all in the head, the one on your shoulders, I regret to say I didnt come in my last two visits to the escorts, I'm a young guy too but as soon as I got home I had the best climaxes with Chow Mein, I suppose Its who you know, i'm use to her and feel more comfortable in her presence

What you have with Chow Mein is rare, she is a very special woma..... err she is very special.

[Walshie]

What you have with Chow Mein is rare, she is a very special woma..... err she is very special.

Thanks Saul, we do have a special bond,

[philipkntz]

sorry if I am commenting on where I don't have much experience as I do not see escorts and my involvement does not help, but...
just wanted to share, that in my private life I have realised a long time ago, that there is a lot to do with the head.
If the head / heart is not into it, I could be repulsed by the idea of an intercourse for years. (seriously, years).

Thanks for sharing. Yes, there's a lot in the mind, and in a womans case, even more in the hormones which of course are controlled by the mind. but not necessarily in the head. We joke here about the little brain and maybe there's something to it.
I've long believed, and medicine is starting to realise that much of our thinking happens below our heads. If this thinking is correct, then our gut is actually our largest brain and we really do have gut feelings and instincts.
But getting back to the problem in hand. Yes, I am aware that a virile female can be repulsed by the idea of intercourse for years, but if I understand correctly, this is usually total chastity other than the occasional sympathy fuck. However, a virile man that's off vaginal sex, still has to do what a man has to do.
On the other hand, there was a 10 year period in my life when I was only interested in intimacy with one person and there was quite a lota vagina. Jeepers, now I realise what a number she did on me. Anyone got the number of a good sexual therapist? And maybe a regular therapist too?

Maybe someday science will figure out what makes us all tick. for the meantime we will just have to muddle along