escort called me "crazy and dishonest"

[anon361]

Plenty of women that just arrived in Ireland have been advertising on this site for ages, I wonder how that happens

[ClarkKent]

An escort once said on this site that she will under certain circumstances require a deposit.

Having said that, such a request would be an instant deal-breaker for us.

[bettercallsaul]

An escort once said on this site that she will under certain circumstances require a deposit.

Having said that, such a request would be an instant deal-breaker for us.

I have left a deposit with every escort I visited,sometimes more than one.... once five!! I do hope they did not sell the deposit on.... (it's a fetish for some)

[JAMESCORK]

Last week I tried to organise an outcall and it all went well until I got a txt a few minutes after. In the txt she asked for a photo for security reasons and to prove im 24 and not alot older. At first I was a bit surprised but eventually agreed to send her one because ive seen her on the site for over a year now. Also she seemed nice on the phone. However after she agreed to meet me she asked for a deposit through PayPal to make sure i wont cancel the meeting.When i said I wouldnt do this she got angry and said im just wasting her time and that she does this with all her clients.

Has this happended to anyone while trying to organise an outcall? Ive done a few before and never got asked for deposit.

I'm guessing here... But I'd say you sounded dodgy. She was not confident enough to pack a bag, leave the safety of her home, call a taxi and travel some distance to a meeting she was ... not quite sure of. You sent her a pic I believe.... Of what.. If you sent a gym pic your fucked right there... Asking for the deposit says to me she expects a wasted time....

Just my opinion.

[EnglishAlex]

If a client has wasted my time in the past I request a 50% deposit to accept the incall appointment, once bitten twice shy.
It's not unusual to ask for deposit for outcalls either. I don't see what the fuss is about tbh, if you're meeting an established escort that is. Paypal isn't the best method for escorts to use though. I have a couple of clients in England who pay the full amount before the appointment as I'm traveling just to see them and I wouldn't go otherwise.

Sending pictures is a bit nuts though. Don't be doing that shit

[bettercallsaul]

I'm guessing here... But I'd say you sounded dodgy. She was not confident enough to pack a bag, leave the safety of her home, call a taxi and travel some distance to a meeting she was ... not quite sure of. You sent her a pic I believe.... Of what.. If you sent a gym pic your fucked right there... Asking for the deposit says to me she expects a wasted time....

Just my opinion.

I think the pic he sent was the issue, close family's freak her out...

[emilyuk]

I will ask for £10 - £30 deposit via credit or paypal or paysafe if its a new client for an outcall with out a reference from another working lady, this is to ensure my fuel/Taxi is covered and I am not left stranded somewhere.

If I know the client or they have reference then I will go with out deposit. Never had a problem as I do not ask for stupid money, plus I have plenty of reviews so people know I am not a nutter butter and running off with money.

[ClarkKent]

This is where common sense comes in. I totally get the new random client requesting an outcall/client who previously wasted the escorts time.

[James f]

This is where common sense comes in. I totally get the new random client requesting an outcall/client who previously wasted the escorts time.

Yes but i dont see how i could be considered to be wasting time when ive given her my forum name where she could check all my reviews.
Also the photo i sent her was normal. Not in the gym, not naked...

[James f]

I will ask for £10 - £30 deposit via credit or paypal or paysafe if its a new client for an outcall with out a reference from another working lady, this is to ensure my fuel/Taxi is covered and I am not left stranded somewhere.

If I know the client or they have reference then I will go with out deposit. Never had a problem as I do not ask for stupid money, plus I have plenty of reviews so people know I am not a nutter butter and running off with money.

That shounds fine and i probably would have done it as i dont think i would be too down about losing a few quid. But paypal i dont use and the money upfront didnt sound like £10-30