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    your own family or strangers for example i ph a family member for advice and to do an erron for me and was told they were busy which qas a lie then i contacted a very good friend and it was done straight away so it makes one think strangers are better than your own for example say i looked after all my fanily through out the years and this is the way you get paid back it makes one think
    Live and let live life is to short

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melindablondey View Post
    your own family or strangers for example i ph a family member for advice and to do an erron for me and was told they were busy which qas a lie then i contacted a very good friend and it was done straight away so it makes one think strangers are better than your own for example say i looked after all my fanily through out the years and this is the way you get paid back it makes one think
    I suspect Melindablondey babe you have always been a strong person to your family.

    Like I am to mine.

    And short of phoning the idiots crying (that will never happen BTW) they are that insensitive that they don't pick up on it when your feeling very low!

    I have been crying inside a few times when I needed support from my family or a hug.

    But hey I'll be there for them when they call me crying, that's what unconditional love is all about & family me thinks.

    And being a strong person is all about.

    Even if we have our sensitive moments.

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    You get to choose your friends. With family you need to be lucky.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    I suspect Melindablondey babe you have always been a strong person to your family.

    Like I am to mine.

    And short of phoning the idiots crying (that will never happen BTW) they are that insensitive that they don't pick up on it when your feeling very low!

    I have been crying inside a few times when I needed support from my family or a hug.

    But hey I'll be there for them when they call me crying, that's what unconditional love is all about & family me thinks.

    And being a strong person is all about.

    Even if we have our sensitive moments.

    Delta to Melindablondey.
    This is what i cant understand when my ph rings its one of my family for example would you have this or that and the fool i am i say ye of course come over and i give it to you but when i ask would they do something for me i get oh i vant at moment its all lies x x
    Live and let live life is to short

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    Quote Originally Posted by MidlifeCrisis View Post
    You get to choose your friends. With family you need to be lucky.
    You are very right to be honest my family forget but i wont forget my genuine friends x x x
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melindablondey View Post
    This is what i cant understand when my ph rings its one of my family for example would you have this or that and the fool i am i say ye of course come over and i give it to you but when i ask would they do something for me i get oh i vant at moment its all lies x x
    The only people I ever wanted to hurt are the one's I love the most!!

    Like WTF!!

    If I don't care about you it's all like meh.

    Fuck em all babe if you have somebody, anybody that's all that matters.

    And if you don't you just have to philosophical!
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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    The only people I ever wanted to hurt are the one's I love the most!!

    Like WTF!!

    If I don't care about you it's all like meh.

    Fuck em all babe if you have somebody, anybody that's all that matters.

    And if you don't you just have to philosophical!
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    I think it depends. All relationships need nurturing and quite often you get out of it what you put in. It's also a matter of perspective. More likely a friend is going to know your genuine situation with work and how difficult or important it is for you to get something done, whereas a family member may not have a clue about what you are up against or why you can't do something yourself, so they think you are being lazy etc. There are certain things I would ask my family to help me with and others I would ask a close friend and more often than not, I would just try and deal with it myself, as I am not good at asking for help.

    People will always surprise you when the shit hits the fan, the ones that you thought don't really care can often be the ones that help you to pick up the pieces.

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    Thankfully I can usually depend on family members to help out if I ask.
    It's usually a small thing like giving me a lift to the pub & I only ask if it's wet & they are nearby.

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