Jaysus - False Advertising (Not on EI)

[Best Before]

I hear you, and I appreciate your post. My main concern is the effect this type of troll can have on new clients. Both of his "joke" posts were not jokes until a mod called him out. Who's to say what bad advice or how much damage he can do with a new client before a mod catches it? Additionally considering his obvious trollness, trying to get another client to hire him is quite a bit off the rails IMO. If it wasn't for the threatening nature of some of his posts, I would treat him like the other trolls and just ignore him or laugh it off.

Anyways you are right. He's dragging me down to his level and I should be better than that. Now if I see him posting something dangerous or trying to coerce someone into doing something dangerous, I have to say something, it's in my nature. But yeah, I could probably ease up and just report inappropriate posts rather than troll-bashing.

Report the post if you feel strongly about it being Dangerous. Lets the mods deal with him.

[willie wacker]

Report the post if you feel strongly about it being Dangerous. Lets the mods deal with him.

I don,t know if it,s worth reporting any more as I don,t believe the mods have a grasp of what,s going on.
Zilch got a month ban once for calling Dick a cunt( and he was right) but reduced to a week as it was his first offence
A poster called an other poster a cunt twice on a thread and nothing done about it
IMHO the only person who has a real grasp of the forum,s is doc and he is only a volunteer mod.
I know a lot of users here have started to post less as they told me the place is gone to the dogs
I think they might be right

[Floki]

I don,t know if it,s worth reporting any more as I don,t believe the mods have a grasp of what,s going on.
Zilch got a month ban once for calling Dick a cunt( and he was right) but reduced to a week as it was his first offence
A poster called an other poster a cunt twice on a thread and nothing done about it
IMHO the only person who has a real grasp of the forum,s is doc and he is only a volunteer mod.
I know a lot of users here have started to post less as they told me the place is gone to the dogs
I think they might be right

Hi guys,

We have had a thread in the past complaining that we are moderating too much, but this here seems that we are not moderating enough.
It feels like no matter what we do, it isn't enough, or we are doing too much.

If you believe that you need to report something, then do so.
We here will take a look into each reported post and will deal with it in to correct way.

I do understand how you may feel about how one person being banned while another isn't, but this may be to do with who is moderating.
Each one of us have different views, but we all try to do what we think is right.
If anybody believes that we are not being fair, then please lets us know and we will look into how we can make fair for each person.

I want equality for everybody, which is only right.

[joe00]

Hi guys,

We have had a thread in the past complaining that we are moderating too much, but this here seems that we are not moderating enough.
It feels like no matter what we do, it isn't enough, or we are doing too much.

If you believe that you need to report something, then do so.
We here will take a look into each reported post and will deal with it in to correct way.

I do understand how you may feel about how one person being banned while another isn't, but this may be to do with who is moderating.
Each one of us have different views, but we all try to do what we think is right.
If anybody believes that we are not being fair, then please lets us know and we will look into how we can make fair for each person.

I want equality for everybody, which is only right.

You can't be any fairer than that Floki. You have been polite to me in PMs and I really appreciate your help here. When I crossed the line in that interracial thread you told me and I apologised, so you know if I have done something wrong I will own it and apologise. Anyway, I want to thank you again for being helpful. Thanks a lot and I hope you are doing well and having a great day. Lovely weather here.

[alcatel]

Teacher's pet.

[Best Before]

Hi guys,

We have had a thread in the past complaining that we are moderating too much, but this here seems that we are not moderating enough.
It feels like no matter what we do, it isn't enough, or we are doing too much.

If you believe that you need to report something, then do so.
We here will take a look into each reported post and will deal with it in to correct way.

I do understand how you may feel about how one person being banned while another isn't, but this may be to do with who is moderating.
Each one of us have different views, but we all try to do what we think is right.
If anybody believes that we are not being fair, then please lets us know and we will look into how we can make fair for each person.

I want equality for everybody, which is only right.

But it shouldn't matter who the moderator is.

That's the problem around here, no consistency.

[Floki]

But it shouldn't matter who the moderator is.

That's the problem around here, no consistency.

This is true, so I will agree with you.
However though, if something has been put into place, then we'll all agree with it, but if one of us looks at things differently, we then decide between each other if there is another route we can take.

We all see things differently, but we here do try and make things fair for all.

[ShadowEmpress]

Now originally I had no intention at all of posting in this thread here to today, or ever, but something about the discussion has bugged me consistently and it has taken me all day to figure out what it is... and after waffling about whether or not to post it, and figuring out how to express my thoughts in actual words, it will bug me even more if I do not write it out.

In my previous reply to this thread, I really meant it when I said I am not getting into the "womanhood" argument. Do I have my own view on the matter? Of course; and of course, like any other human being, I would love it if most people agreed with me. However, I also recognize that I am just a random person on the internet here, and have about just as much a chance at changing someone's drastically different opinion as they do changing mine. It is a stalemate, and that is why I am not getting into that argument.

What DOES bug me about this whole discussion, and I think I tried to touch upon it in my last post but didn't quite know how to word it, is the assumption that if a post-op woman chooses not to disclose that part of her medical history, she is automatically assumed to be out to "trick" clients. The fact that this thread is titled "Jaysus False Advertising" immediately makes the escort out to be someone who is "out to get men". I think we can all agree that, for example, an escort who posts false pictures is falsely advertising, but it is not like there is any depth to that argument. There are however a lot more factors to consider here, as there is a bevy of reasons why a post-op woman would choose not to disclose that info, such as their health (both physically and psychologically.) And, just because I don't happen to personally agree with you, I do realize some of you would feel "tricked" in that scenario, and I am a rational being who can accept that you don't feel the same way as me. In return, I think it important to at least consider the possibility that a post-op escort is not necessarily actively trying to trick you. Now, since no one here is actually the escort in question, we will never know for certain, but the fact that there are potentially multiple answers as to why they left out that info in their profile kind of proves the point I am making here.

Anyways, this is just me getting things off my chest. Sometimes these forums weight heavily on my mind, and while I don't expect everyone to 100% agree with me, I appreciate being able to get rid of this mental burden today. Time to go back to enjoying this beautiful summer weather!

[Best Before]

Now originally I had no intention at all of posting in this thread here to today, or ever, but something about the discussion has bugged me consistently and it has taken me all day to figure out what it is... and after waffling about whether or not to post it, and figuring out how to express my thoughts in actual words, it will bug me even more if I do not write it out.

In my previous reply to this thread, I really meant it when I said I am not getting into the "womanhood" argument. Do I have my own view on the matter? Of course; and of course, like any other human being, I would love it if most people agreed with me. However, I also recognize that I am just a random person on the internet here, and have about just as much a chance at changing someone's drastically different opinion as they do changing mine. It is a stalemate, and that is why I am not getting into that argument.

What DOES bug me about this whole discussion, and I think I tried to touch upon it in my last post but didn't quite know how to word it, is the assumption that if a post-op woman chooses not to disclose that part of her medical history, she is automatically assumed to be out to "trick" clients. The fact that this thread is titled "Jaysus False Advertising" immediately makes the escort out to be someone who is "out to get men". I think we can all agree that, for example, an escort who posts false pictures is falsely advertising, but it is not like there is any depth to that argument. There are however a lot more factors to consider here, as there is a bevy of reasons why a post-op woman would choose not to disclose that info, such as their health (both physically and psychologically.) And, just because I don't happen to personally agree with you, I do realize some of you would feel "tricked" in that scenario, and I am a rational being who can accept that you don't feel the same way as me. In return, I think it important to at least consider the possibility that a post-op escort is not necessarily actively trying to trick you. Now, since no one here is actually the escort in question, we will never know for certain, but the fact that there are potentially multiple answers as to why they left out that info in their profile kind of proves the point I am making here.

Anyways, this is just me getting things off my chest. Sometimes these forums weight heavily on my mind, and while I don't expect everyone to 100% agree with me, I appreciate being able to get rid of this mental burden today. Time to go back to enjoying this beautiful summer weather!

I can see your point her not wanting to advertise she is post op. But do you think it should be mentioned at the first point of contact. i.e. text meassage, phone call or pm? This could diffuse a very awkward situation arising during a appointment that may cause distress to both parties. You see it's not about if he's a she or she's a he, as there is plenty of people on here have no issue seeing either. It's about making an informed decision, and I think knowing someone used to be a man or visa-versa, is a important part of the decision making when deciding who you would like to visit.

[Dalton23]

Hi guys,

We have had a thread in the past complaining that we are moderating too much, but this here seems that we are not moderating enough.
It feels like no matter what we do, it isn't enough, or we are doing too much.

If you believe that you need to report something, then do so.
We here will take a look into each reported post and will deal with it in to correct way.

I do understand how you may feel about how one person being banned while another isn't, but this may be to do with who is moderating.
Each one of us have different views, but we all try to do what we think is right.
If anybody believes that we are not being fair, then please lets us know and we will look into how we can make fair for each person.

I want equality for everybody, which is only right.

Well said.