Originally Posted by
ShadowEmpress
Now originally I had no intention at all of posting in this thread here to today, or ever, but something about the discussion has bugged me consistently and it has taken me all day to figure out what it is... and after waffling about whether or not to post it, and figuring out how to express my thoughts in actual words, it will bug me even more if I do not write it out.
In my previous reply to this thread, I really meant it when I said I am not getting into the "womanhood" argument. Do I have my own view on the matter? Of course; and of course, like any other human being, I would love it if most people agreed with me. However, I also recognize that I am just a random person on the internet here, and have about just as much a chance at changing someone's drastically different opinion as they do changing mine. It is a stalemate, and that is why I am not getting into that argument.
What DOES bug me about this whole discussion, and I think I tried to touch upon it in my last post but didn't quite know how to word it, is the assumption that if a post-op woman chooses not to disclose that part of her medical history, she is automatically assumed to be out to "trick" clients. The fact that this thread is titled "Jaysus False Advertising" immediately makes the escort out to be someone who is "out to get men". I think we can all agree that, for example, an escort who posts false pictures is falsely advertising, but it is not like there is any depth to that argument. There are however a lot more factors to consider here, as there is a bevy of reasons why a post-op woman would choose not to disclose that info, such as their health (both physically and psychologically.) And, just because I don't happen to personally agree with you, I do realize some of you would feel "tricked" in that scenario, and I am a rational being who can accept that you don't feel the same way as me. In return, I think it important to at least consider the possibility that a post-op escort is not necessarily actively trying to trick you. Now, since no one here is actually the escort in question, we will never know for certain, but the fact that there are potentially multiple answers as to why they left out that info in their profile kind of proves the point I am making here.
Anyways, this is just me getting things off my chest. Sometimes these forums weight heavily on my mind, and while I don't expect everyone to 100% agree with me, I appreciate being able to get rid of this mental burden today. Time to go back to enjoying this beautiful summer weather!