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    Sorry if this is a little downer, but last night/ this morning was having dinner with new best friend and she asked me was I lonely ??

    Got message on here yesterday, from lady saying she felt lonely too.

    Now when I thought about question, I think answer is probably yes. Why ?? Although sometimes I just go home to sleep and that could be either day or night, when I get up and apartment is empty it does hit me. For as long as I can remember I have always had someone there, but due to circumstances I will be alone for next few months.

    So nothing personal but some of you guys must live alone, and you girls do when traveling, so whats the answer? what do you do?. I work hard, have very little time off, and have a few good friends, but one I have spent days and nights with lately is not back for few weeks. Special Lady is gone for awhile.

    If you have suggestions let me know, but DO NOT turn thread into row.Or slagging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lapd View Post
    Sorry if this is a little downer, but last night/ this morning was having dinner with new best friend and she asked me was I lonely ??

    Got message on here yesterday, from lady saying she felt lonely too.

    Now when I thought about question, I think answer is probably yes. Why ?? Although sometimes I just go home to sleep and that could be either day or night, when I get up and apartment is empty it does hit me. For as long as I can remember I have always had someone there, but due to circumstances I will be alone for next few months.

    So nothing personal but some of you guys must live alone, and you girls do when traveling, so whats the answer? what do you do?. I work hard, have very little time off, and have a few good friends, but one I have spent days and nights with lately is not back for few weeks. Special Lady is gone for awhile.

    If you have suggestions let me know, but DO NOT turn thread into row.Or slagging.

    Thanks
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    “If you're lonely when you're alone, you're in bad company.”

    ― Jean-Paul Sartre

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    Quote Originally Posted by lapd View Post
    Sorry if this is a little downer, but last night/ this morning was having dinner with new best friend and she asked me was I lonely ??

    Got message on here yesterday, from lady saying she felt lonely too.

    Now when I thought about question, I think answer is probably yes. Why ?? Although sometimes I just go home to sleep and that could be either day or night, when I get up and apartment is empty it does hit me. For as long as I can remember I have always had someone there, but due to circumstances I will be alone for next few months.

    So nothing personal but some of you guys must live alone, and you girls do when traveling, so whats the answer? what do you do?. I work hard, have very little time off, and have a few good friends, but one I have spent days and nights with lately is not back for few weeks. Special Lady is gone for awhile.

    If you have suggestions let me know, but DO NOT turn thread into row.Or slagging.

    Thanks

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    lonely? grow up dude

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    You can be lonely and around people, sad side effect to modern society where most people are only worried about themselves and not others. One way I find to combat that is get active, the less active you are the more likely you are to feel lonely but Meursault is right, if you arenot happy in your own skin then you're going to feel detached and lonely when you're alone..
    Last edited by anon361; 01-05-16 at 18:59.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    You can be lonely and around people, sad side effect to modern society where most people are only worried about themselves and not others. One way I find to combat that is get active, the less active you are the more likely you are to feel lonely but Meursault is right, if you arenot happy in your own skin then you're going to feel detached and lonely when you're alone..

    Epic reply & 100% true.


    Except if you don't get on with them, then it is OK to call them a sad no friends bastard or call them out about there disability, weight issues, addictions or sexual orientation?


    Just using your logic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    Epic reply & 100% true.


    Except if you don't get on with them, then it is OK to call them a sad no friends bastard or call them out about there disability, weight issues, addictions or sexual orientation?


    Just using your logic.
    Sorry but if you're implying any of the above are good excuses for not being active them we'll have to disagree, you can be active of the mind at the very least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lapd View Post
    Sorry if this is a little downer, but last night/ this morning was having dinner with new best friend and she asked me was I lonely ??

    Got message on here yesterday, from lady saying she felt lonely too.

    Now when I thought about question, I think answer is probably yes. Why ?? Although sometimes I just go home to sleep and that could be either day or night, when I get up and apartment is empty it does hit me. For as long as I can remember I have always had someone there, but due to circumstances I will be alone for next few months.

    So nothing personal but some of you guys must live alone, and you girls do when traveling, so whats the answer? what do you do?. I work hard, have very little time off, and have a few good friends, but one I have spent days and nights with lately is not back for few weeks. Special Lady is gone for awhile.

    If you have suggestions let me know, but DO NOT turn thread into row.Or slagging.

    Thanks
    The thing about being a loner in general, and having the occasional bout of real loneliness, is that it makes you appreciate genuine company when you have it. You're alone for awhile - enjoy it.

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    everyone feels lonely at times, its common, best thing to do is either get into watching box sets of tv shows, or do things that you enjoy that are not dependant on two or more people, for you it is not like its a long term things, just until your friend gets back so don't sweat it too much, it is only an issue because your thinking about it

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