Hi,
I'm new to the site, and very curious and nervous about visiting an escort for the first time.
Can anyone recommend someone in particular for a first timer, and what the process involved is?
(Dublin based)
Thanks
Hi,
I'm new to the site, and very curious and nervous about visiting an escort for the first time.
Can anyone recommend someone in particular for a first timer, and what the process involved is?
(Dublin based)
Thanks
ShadowEmpress (22-04-16)
Just to clarify, I'm not a virgin, just never been with an escort before. It reads back that way...
Find someone you're attracted to that has verified photos and many positive reviews. You won't really know if you'll click until you meet.
Ah yeah, I understand the reviews and photos stuff. In terms of attraction I don't really have a typw. Anyone to recommend personally?
Discretion is also important, want something a little hard to notice or out of the way.
Well I'm fairly new to this as well (me and the wife recently joined, looking for threesomes with no drama or stalkers), so I don't have a lot of specific recommendations. If you look at my review for Sarah, you'll be able to find her profile. We had a great time with her. Emmasweet (above) also comes very highly recommended. There's a lot of ladies, even once you filter for reviews and photos. The only suggestion I would have if you don't have a specific type would be maybe someone advertising GFE and having positive reviews for that. That kind of easygoing personality would be nice for someone new. Again, Sarah was great for our first. Personally, I like the kissing so FK is a big plus for me.
As far as discretion, I think that is important to escorts too. Again we've only had one adventure so far, but it was in a very discrete location and I get the impression that's the norm. So I wouldn't worry about that!
Last edited by ClarkKent; 22-04-16 at 06:49. Reason: Ps: I believe Sarah is in Dublin at the moment
ShadowEmpress (22-04-16)
Thank you for your reply.
What is the process when ringing up an escort/massage? How do you go about that conversation?
It's better not to stutter and stammer when you call; get to the point. They get tons of calls, texts, and PMs, and from what I understand, many of the calls are not serious. Best bet is to call, confirm their name (in case you dialed the wrong number), and say "Hi my name is Dublinnew and I'd like to book a xx-minute appointment on xx day". From there ask about the rate (but don't haggle), and ask if any of her "favorites" cost extra. It seems that newer escorts charge for them, and often many will charge for them on a 30-minute session. Feel free to let them know you are new, nervous etc, but understand they don't want an hour-long phone session and if they think you aren't serious or are looking for free phone sex they will probably hang up.
Once the timing is figured out, expect them to want you to reconfirm an hour or two before the appointment, and be given general directions to a place where you can park (but isn't where they live). From there you will call, say you've arrived and be given specific instructions, all while I'm assuming they are watching you through binoculars or something to make sure you're not a creep lol. If they offer a shower, don't be a dick, take the shower. Your hygiene standards might not be up to par. Expect to give them the payment up front in an envelope before fun time starts. We bring a bottle of wine as a gift, might be a good idea for you too.
In general don't be a dick, and remember you are paying for their time and company, everything else depends on how you act (and smell).
Okay, I get you. What is the process then when you actually meet face to face?
Well they'll probably want their money fairly quickly. After that, I suppose every girl is different. Sarah was lovely and knew exactly what to do. We also had the opposite experience with a newer escort today. My personal feeling is that maybe it's better to find someone with a little experience (like 26 or older) as opposed to a 19-year old with 2 reviews. Especially if you are new and want to ease into things.