What a difference a decade makes - Reviews

[Dalton23]

David Feckem

I do get your point as a punter but what about the girl? He could make a thread like this one and share the information through pm..however people need to be aware before posting in public..

I feel sorry for the girl but maybe she should choose her accommodation more wisely considering her line of employment.

[HornEeGeezer]

Hi there

I am sorry that we edited your review but do you think is good to tell everybody that the location of the escort is full of police???
Do you think is good for the escort ??
You seem really happy with the appointment but telling this to everybody I think you are not helping the escort at all..

Hi Jorge,

Thanks for your reply - I genuinely appreciated that!
As you rightly say I thought the lady in question was brilliant - which is why I wrote the review - to help her. But the thing is, punters are also entitled to be informed, and I did not say the location was full of police - you did. I merely said there was a coffee shop down the road where the Gardai stopped on their coffee breaks. I also balanced that by saying that it didn't worry me at all, and that the coast was clear after 10pm. But in all fairness, it might worry some others, so, to answer your first ??? YES, I think it was good to tell everyone exactly what I observed.

You ask is it good for the escort?? I love escorts (more than I love other women!), and I would never want to harm one in any way. But that doesn't put their concerns above other people's. Facts are facts and these ones are not of my making. Of course I understand that some people might not visit before 10pm as a result, but maybe even then perhaps I have helped her in a way - who knows how many no-shows she gets as a result of people arriving for appointments and then being scared off on arrival?

Let's agree to differ on that (but you have the control grrrrrr) That said, I, am actually glad that someone else is making the decisions! And even though I criticise EI for not giving clients' interests enough emphasis - it's great to know that you are looking after the girls. Thanks.

I noticed you didn't take issue with any of my other points, so obviously you agree with them all . Great! You are now my best buddy!

[Jorge]

Hi Jorge,

Thanks for your reply - I genuinely appreciated that!
As you rightly say I thought the lady in question was brilliant - which is why I wrote the review - to help her. But the thing is, punters are also entitled to be informed, and I did not say the location was full of police - you did. I merely said there was a coffee shop down the road where the Gardai stopped on their coffee breaks. I also balanced that by saying that it didn't worry me at all, and that the coast was clear after 10pm. But in all fairness, it might worry some others, so, to answer your first ??? YES, I think it was good to tell everyone exactly what I observed.

You ask is it good for the escort?? I love escorts (more than I love other women!), and I would never want to harm one in any way. But that doesn't put their concerns above other people's. Facts are facts and these ones are not of my making. Of course I understand that some people might not visit before 10pm as a result, but maybe even then perhaps I have helped her in a way - who knows how many no-shows she gets as a result of people arriving for appointments and then being scared off on arrival?

Let's agree to differ on that (but you have the control grrrrrr) That said, I, am actually glad that someone else is making the decisions! And even though I criticise EI for not giving clients' interests enough emphasis - it's great to know that you are looking after the girls. Thanks.

I noticed you didn't take issue with any of my other points, so obviously you agree with them all . Great! You are now my best buddy!

As I said to Feckem I do get your point as punters, I am agreed with you that the reviews are to express your opinion of your previous meeting but I am just asking to be more careful before write anything in public . If you guys think that we are always on the escort side let me tell you that you are wrong, as moderators we are in a difficult position that we have to judge a feedback from an encounter between two person that we never been there to see who is telling the truth.
Can I give you an example?
If an escort reply in a review after a negative one...Reply = (You better go to the shower baby before come and see me) then the punter come to us saying ..(Would you please edit that review this is not true I never smell bad) Who is telling the true here???
However this was an example from hundreds that we got every day.
If the girls decided to opted out of the review system is up to them is nothing that we can do. They pay us for advertising no to get reviews. The reviews are optional, some of the girl don't want reviews for security reason or for other reason that we must respect.

[HornEeGeezer]

If you guys think that we are always on the escort side let me tell you that you are wrong, as moderators we are in a difficult position that we have to judge a feedback from an encounter between two person that we never been there to see who is telling the truth.
Can I give you an example?
If an escort reply in a review after a negative one...Reply = (You better go to the shower baby before come and see me) then the punter come to us saying ..(Would you please edit that review this is not true I never smell bad) Who is telling the true here???

Sorry buddy, but you are not in a difficult position at all. If you set yourself up as censor, judge, jury and executioner, you are bound to get into trouble, but if you leave things entirely alone, as you should - then it's easy. Who cares if an escort replies that the client stinks? The lady is fully entitled to have her say, and you should never remove her comments either. It's then up to the reader to form their own opinion based on what they read. As matters stand, what they read is more reflective of your opinion than it should be.

And before the flamers get going again - the client is in a very privileged position as the ladies opinions cannot affect him in any way. Clients can remain totally anonymous - the escorts can't. It would be totally unfair to edit their comments, and there is absolutely no reason to do so. IMHO they have an absolute right to defend themselves against malicious or other unwarranted comments. That right is actually much more important than the client's right to review. And you think you have to make a big important decision whether to remove it or not? Sheesh!!!

Am I really going to ring a girl and say Hi, my name is Paddy (it's not), I'm HornEeGeezer on EI - you know - the smelly one!

[luvspunkin]

Can't help but agree with you.