I see nothing wrong with the original conversation......or is it just me? I mean you didn't tell the guy to F@#k off!!
Think he's pissed because you said you wouldn't see him, how dare you decide who you do or don't want to see. It's not like it's your time or body!! ;-)
Taking to the forum to bitch is a shitty thing to do. Bet you're glad you didn't see him now if this is how he behaves?