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[ana massage]

Ana already knows what she wants to do but is seeking confirmation from others.

Listen to yourself.

You appear to be trying to convince yourself of something you know isn't right.

People's opinions don't matter. Only your opinion matters on this one

You are a very smart guy,my friend
I love smart guys.Are you hot too?

[MidlifeCrisis]

Won't hapen.
I am the kind of person that I always give the benefit of the dought from beginning but once that trust is gone..well let's say is gone for ever

I think you have answered your own question. I would normally agree with Lu's answer - easier to regret not doing something than doing it - but it sounds like your gut instinct is telling you to stay away, and that instinct is your best adviser.

The man's a fool, by the way!

[F007]

Plenty More Fish in the Sea!!!

And I'm a Good Catch!!!!

I hope you can get to the other side of this, providing you're sure, this is what You want...

You valued friend

007

[Petros]

Something similar happened to me, went out with girl, treated her very well, relationship ended, and realised I got taking for a mug, by being to bloody nice.

Sometimes you have to ask yourself who's fault it was - yours for being too nice or hers for accepting your gennerousity!

It's a case of lámha suas for me in this area with friends in the past - been very nice and done everything I was asked to do but was then dropped like a hot potato when something better came along. I just learn by my mistakes and move on

[ana massage]

Something similar happened to me, went out with girl, treated her very well, relationship ended, and realised I got taking for a mug, by being to bloody nice. Funny thing is I then got accused of telling lies behind her back. To add insult to it. I left it as this, u get on with your life, I will get on with mine. But as far as I am concerned I will never trust you again. I will be polite and say hello as I walk past, but that's it. See it as a lesson learned, and listen to your gut instinct, its always right.

Maybe you did something wrong too?
Did you try and talk with her about it?Telling her you didn't do all the things she said you did?
Trust is a very strong feeling but so easy to break

[David Feckem]

Let's say you met someone a while back and for a while all was good but then because of his insecurity everything fell apart.

What was he insecure about?

[nitram]

Ana the fact that you have posted this thread suggests that their is some degree of doubt in your mind, to make contact or not. As we do not know the whole story, advice supplied here could be completely incorrect.

The real question is, (a) If you don't make contact will you deal with the questions which this decision will raise in your mind in time to come, i.e. The unanswered questions or (b) Will meeting the person concerned clear the air for you somewhat, allowing you to move forward without wondering, although you may never know all the answers to some of the questions.

Only you know the whole story and have the ability to decide which of the above options are best for you.

[ana massage]

What was he insecure about?

About everything in relation to me

[Rocker123]

About everything in relation to me

It is time to walk away from this guy and not look back.

[ana massage]

It is time to walk away from this guy and not look back.

I did that already,a while back