Perfectly said. The difference between photoshoot and photoshop is a great analogy. I know of girls that spend vast amounts, on locations abroad, on make-up and wardrobe... Vast!!!.
I usually can appreciate and admire the results. Its glamour, its colour, its sexy... but most importantly... its her!.. that's the key. I haven't met you Larissa, but I have met others who I am quite happy look just like their pics, but just slightly more glam than I will possibly ever see... But its still her...
Clever Photoshop enhances an honest photo shoot... I like it. I say we keep it...