I thought that might be preferable to suggesting she might be on drugs. I mean she went through an awful experience of which she can not remember herself, as she put herself in a very silly position by attending a party with men she had never met before and decided to take drugs, so she was totally off her face with guys that were totally off their face and things got out of hand. Now if you had a friend who was considering going to a party for sex with a bunch of strangers taking drugs would you tell them to go have a good time or would you possibly tell them to not be an idiot and not go?
She was reliant on a friend who said she knew one of the guys and when she got there she chose to take drugs, so she was not able to look after herself and she would have known that the other guests were also taking drugs.
The situation she was in has nothing to do with my work and my job. This is not a requirement. I do not have to attend parties where alcohol and drugs are involved. I do not have to take drugs and I decide who I see and how many at any one time.
It makes me cross that someone who acted so irresponsibly is not being asked the important questions, like why? Why the fuck did you put yourself in that position? What makes you think other sex workers are going to be as vulnerable as you were at that time? Why do you think all women are as stupid as you were?
Now you can tell me off for dissing her