UnBanned but can't post!!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I'm aware Rachel and Sophie are no angels and have had previous bans. But I was more referring to clients posters that have agendas to try and get others banned and just consider their own ban as collateral damage. We all know the culprits.



And a great poster you are too, but your kind are being diluted out of the system with all drivel and frat boy banter that is filling up these pages. Hardly any of the girls want to post anymore incase some one pulls them up on some spelling mistake or take the piss out of them.
It's very sad to see.

You can't have one rule for the clients and one rule for the advertisers. One thing that could be changed and probably would be for the best would be the ability to create multiple accounts. I have never understood why people are allowed to do this? Clients tend to care less for their profile because if they get banned, they simply re-invent themselves, whereas this is not a great option for advertisers unless they are doing it to protect themselves and on these occasions they can talk to the mods and explain their case.

I think we would be on a much more even footing if this ability to create multiple accounts was stopped and it would also stop a lot of the game playing that goes on.

I'm afraid I don't agree on the reasons why other girls don't use the forum either. In the 5 years I have been here I have observed many times the more confident sex works deliberately undermining new girls and ridiculing them and under mining them or railroading their threads and taking them over. Now you're at a point where the few that are left can't be bothered to contribute, because the topics are dull and regurgitated that there really is nothing to say.

It's more like a school playground on a rainy day and that's pretty miserable.

[Curvaceous Kate]

The forum generates traffic which is good for business. It's the reason it has the competitive edge of that other site we are not allowed mention. If Escorts are not encouraged to post and are not awarded some degree of protection to trolls then sooner or later it will just be left with client posters and it won't take long for it to go down hill from there.
E.I. providing a free service, hardly!!

Urgh? You can post pm's there too and it works in exactly the same way. Not sure what you mean?

[Best Before]

Except, that other site also has a forum which the escorts can use, doesn't seem to help business much as there aren't as many ( dodgey) escort profiles on it.

That's a massive flaw in this site. All the Fake Profiles. Quattroporte put up a very valid reason for the presence of so many Fake Profiles on this site. It's since being deleted which leads me to believe it's true.

You can't have one rule for the clients and one rule for the advertisers. One thing that could be changed and probably would be for the best would be the ability to create multiple accounts. I have never understood why people are allowed to do this? Clients tend to care less for their profile because if they get banned, they simply re-invent themselves, whereas this is not a great option for advertisers unless they are doing it to protect themselves and on these occasions they can talk to the mods and explain their case.

I think we would be on a much more even footing if this ability to create multiple accounts was stopped and it would also stop a lot of the game playing that goes on.

I'm afraid I don't agree on the reasons why other girls don't use the forum either. In the 5 years I have been here I have observed many times the more confident sex works deliberately undermining new girls and ridiculing them and under mining them or railroading their threads and taking them over. Now you're at a point where the few that are left can't be bothered to contribute, because the topics are dull and regurgitated that there really is nothing to say.

It's more like a school playground on a rainy day and that's pretty miserable.

That is another massive problem and again there doesn't seem to be any appetite to manage this from management.

Urgh? You can post pm's there too and it works in exactly the same way. Not sure what you mean?

I know you can PM on the other site also. I wasn't saying you couldn't. I just was saying it would be a handy feature for Escorts to still avail of the PM system despite being banned from posting. I know I would organise most if not all my booking via pm. True Independents are usually too busy to answer the phone, and most state in their profile no Text messages. I find they will get back to me within a couple of hours via PM's.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I know you can PM on the other site also. I wasn't saying you couldn't. I just was saying it would be a handy feature for Escorts to still avail of the PM system despite being banned from posting. I know I would organise most if not all my booking via pm. True Independents are usually too busy to answer the phone, and most state in their profile no Text messages. I find they will get back to me within a couple of hours via PM's.

I'm sorry but that is a load of crap. If anything it is the reverse, as we are able to pick and choose when we work and many choose not to work the 'one in one out' system. If we are not answering the phone it is because for that period of time we are choosing not to work. Once you have met someone it tends to automatically get the phone answered more readily as they know who they are dealing with.

I know that I'm talking from the point of view of someone who has never been banned or had this to deal with, but I would say no more than 5% of my bookings come via messages and surely if someone is keen enough to meet you and that is not an option for whatever reason they will simply pick up the phone?

Also, I'm pretty sure I have had emails direct through my advert here, so is that not an option?

Lastly, it's not a huge problem in the fact that it is rare for a sex worker to get banned. If you look at it statistically the majority do not get banned or it happens extremely rarely. I think it's more important to keep the status quo of the forum than worry about the people who continually get banned who are well aware of the rules and the possible outcomes of their actions.

The best thing to do when you start to feel yourself get annoyed on here is walk away or report, but do not react. Make your point without getting personal and stop! If you continue to wind people up then you have to accept that you may get banned.

[Best Before]

I'm sorry but that is a load of crap. If anything it is the reverse, as we are able to pick and choose when we work and many choose not to work the 'one in one out' system. If we are not answering the phone it is because for that period of time we are choosing not to work. Once you have met someone it tends to automatically get the phone answered more readily as they know who they are dealing with.

I know that I'm talking from the point of view of someone who has never been banned or had this to deal with, but I would say no more than 5% of my bookings come via messages and surely if someone is keen enough to meet you and that is not an option for whatever reason they will simply pick up the phone?

Also, I'm pretty sure I have had emails direct through my advert here, so is that not an option?

Lastly, it's not a huge problem in the fact that it is rare for a sex worker to get banned. If you look at it statistically the majority do not get banned or it happens extremely rarely. I think it's more important to keep the status quo of the forum than worry about the people who continually get banned who are well aware of the rules and the possible outcomes of their actions.

The best thing to do when you start to feel yourself get annoyed on here is walk away or report, but do not react. Make your point without getting personal and stop! If you continue to wind people up then you have to accept that you may get banned.

Not crap Kate, just my own experience.

[annabel taylor]

Not crap Kate, just my own experience.

Never noticed your profile advertising

U don't have bad legs for stockings I guess

[Best Before]

Never noticed your profile advertising

U don't have bad legs for stockings I guess

It's all the pilates

[annabel taylor]

It's all the pilates

Hated pilates breath out your sides

No I'm not a fucking fish

[Best Before]

Hated pilates breath out your sides

No I'm not a fucking fish

I was a huge sceptic myself, but said I'd give it a go and it did wonders for my back issues

[LuckyLu]

On this occasion LVT has requested for her PM option to be removed for her own reasons.

As much as you miss some of your banned colleagues and friends please try to refrain from commenting on their issues on the forums.