Only once did I visit an escort who complained that she hadnt realised that we had gone way overtime.
Was that my fault?
Only once did I visit an escort who complained that she hadnt realised that we had gone way overtime.
Was that my fault?
tom rambo (19-02-16)
Worst experience I ever had was with a guy who through out the booking kept stalling, for instance only client I ever had who sat at the edge of the bed chatting (about other women) while drinking a coffee, then took a long shower and then kept pulling my hand off him when I tried to touch his hard on, while he insisted on pleasuring me (it's a hard life!). My music stopped (yes it's timed) and he didn't seem to be wanting to come to an end as yet again he pulled my hand off him, so I nicely asked him if he wanted to extend the booking. You would think I had stabbed him in the eye. He threw himself off the bed and had his trousers on in a flash the whole time hurling insults at me and blaming me for the fact that I had cum while he didn't have any pleasure and he felt like I had pulled a fast one on him.
At the time I was already feeling down as I had never experienced so many time wasters and I had my first look and go (two of them) in my working life and it really upset me. I was so shocked I even offered him back to the bed to finish, but he said I had ruined it lol.
Now upon reflection and having spoken to others about what happened, this chap has a reputation for booking the last booking of the day and expecting to stay longer and have a chat and get extra time. He was playing a game with me and because he didn't get his way, he threw his dummy out of the pram. I don't work late. I don't work in the evening and I get tired around 7pm. I'm a morning person, so anyone coming to me expecting 'extra free time' by making the last booking of the day is going to be disappointed, as it isn't going to happen.
It really pisses me off as well that someone who should know better can make someone like me feel that bad and as I was very new to touring and 'Ireland' at that time I let it get to me when I should have just told him to piss off and stop playing games. Retrospect is a wonderful thing. If you ever wonder why some girls come across a little hard faced it's people like him that make them that way, so blame the other guys, not the girls. Treat us with respect and you will be treated with the same respect.
Getting off my soap box now
Last edited by Curvaceous Kate; 18-02-16 at 09:30.
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I never go overtime as always set the alarm clock
I am useless at guaging time - especially when I'm with someone who I don't know very well. For that reason I love to be able to see a clock in the room.
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You guys must be supermen. I wish I could manage half an hour or even close to it, let alone outstaying my welcome
Same as that , normally done and dusted within 20 minutes , I thought it was just me
Don't worry, I take no messing now, but being old does not make you thick skinned, that's life experience. I'd never experienced anything like it before. I was still in shock by the look and goes at that time too. I actually stopped working after him, as I couldn't cope with all the messing. I had one client the next day who bless him was very kind and reassuring and got me back on the horse so to speak. I have never been to D9 again since and never intend to, because of the experience I had there. I doubt it would be the same if I did go there, as 3 years down the line and I know what I'm doing now, but I'm not willing to deal with it.
I have a clock since day one, I used to have it on a chest of drawers right in front of the bed, but guys used to come out of the shower and throw a towel on it, so I couldn't see it, so I moved the chest of drawers out of the room and put a skinny little drawer set in there instead, and the only thing that fits on it is the clock,
You can see it perfectly and if you are over staying then you are doing it on purpose and know you are intentionally taking the piss.
This way I don't have to embarris my self by asking you to leave, but you know I know you are overstaying your welcome.
Some people have to have the last word,
but they don't actually want you to stop talking,
as they like the sound of their own voices too much.
tom rambo (19-02-16)