Lets hope the wife is not reading this thread...........
Lets hope the wife is not reading this thread...........
casman (30-01-16)
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Shalom/salaam.
10,000 years of Middle Eastern civilisation and the place is not at peace but rather in pieces.
I once was offered a filmed shoot with a porn star escort which cost 50stg extra and a gangbang which i attended 3 years ago, I occasionally watched them on my tablet but I left the tablet down the side of sofa, when I come home it was on top of TV and only one home was my sister and 12 year daughter (, I just wanted to die,) who just called as does not live there and to this day nothing was mentioned and we carried on as normal but I know she seen it. I was mortified, how could i be so stupid as to forget this.
I still think about this it and it still worries me to this day what their opinion of me is now and at one stage I actually purchased a rope as was going to top myself, yes for days, weeks I thought its the only way out, I was in such a bad place at that time so its a serious matter and no joke
Last edited by Zander; 30-01-16 at 14:25.
A few quick things -
1 we can never be to careful
2 is it some kind of an unwritten rule that a partner can read your texts without your permission, surely this is like opening your personal male without your permission!
3 I would say Irish women are far better at shielding such things and credit card bills from their male partners than the other way around!
Ride them on the beaches!
Why are you blaming God for this? Like seriously? I don't even understand why you would join this site after being caught out to talk about it on the public forum? Would you blame God if she found that too? You never even had a profile here before.
I hate to sound harsh, but if this is true you have no one to blame but yourself and if your relationship mattered so much to you. Why were you seeing sex workers for several years? Just because you were 'thinking' of stopping when the law changes, doesn't mean you did nothing wrong. You'll be blaming the government next for not putting the law through sooner.
casman (31-01-16), Sexy Sandy 69 (31-01-16), Toolbox (01-02-16), willie wacker (31-01-16)
Did he ever think straight? Keeping photo's of a himself and a sex worker back from 2012 on his punting phone? I thought the idea of a punting phone was to make bookings and then delete the evidence? I didn't realise guys were using them to flirt and build friendships and relationships on them? I mean, why even bother having a punting phone if you're going to use it in that way? This isn't just a case of a guy slipping up once, it's a case of someone behaving like he is single and not just enjoying the booking, but the build up before and after and keeping a diary of it on his phone. 2012 for fuck sake!!!
Can anyone put their hand up on this thread and honestly say they have messages they have kept for 4+ years on their punting phone? If you have, it might be an idea to delete them.
That's my word of advice. That's not even a case of 'slipping' and 'getting' careless. That's taking no precaution at all.
I just can't help feel a bit angry that he let his wife go through not just finding the phone, but the content. Her life must have been ripped apart seeing all that. At least if he had kept the phone cleared after each booking she would have only seen one or two messages and could have said he did it as a one off.
I'd like to think that the rest of you are more careful than this, but I'm guessing not by the reactions and sympathy being given.
Clueless (31-01-16), Sexy Sandy 69 (31-01-16), willie wacker (31-01-16)