Rumbled

[curryman]

If my wife found this out I would be in a&e. She seems to be taking it awfully well if she does know.
Don't rule out the possibility she never looked at your phone.
Sometimes when you are paranoid you can jump to all sorts of conclusions.
Personally I would sit tight and say nothing, until something is said to you.
If you still have a good sex life that will tell a lot. Initiate some sexy time and she how she reacts.
I think then you will know for sure if she knows or not.
Hope it works out for you

She knows alright and she was always the calm and cool one, i would prefer if she just screamed and fired stuff at me but not her style.
One stupid mistake in a rush to get to a business meeting fucked everything up, great start to the New Year.

[Zander]

I once was offered a filmed shoot with a porn star escort which cost 50stg extra and a gangbang which i attended 3 years ago, I occasionally watched them on my tablet but I left the tablet down the side of sofa, when I come home it was on top of TV and only one home was my sister and 12 year daughter (, I just wanted to die,) who just called as does not live there and to this day nothing was mentioned and we carried on as normal but I know she seen it. I was mortified, how could i be so stupid as to forget this.
I still think about this it and it still worries me to this day what their opinion of me is now and at one stage I actually purchased a rope as was going to top myself, yes for days, weeks I thought its the only way out, I was in such a bad place at that time so its a serious matter and no joke

[JAMESCORK]

Ok a bit of home truths.

You are punting since 2009! If your relationship with your wife is that bad that you have to sleep with other women since 2009 then maybe its a good thing your wife found the phone because now she may be able to move on and have time in her life to find somebody who truly respects her and cherish every minute they spend together.

I'm not married and never intend to but I know if I was married I would never ever cheat on my wife.

If the shoe was on the other foot and you found out your wife was having an affair since 2009 I'm sure your posts would be a little different!

Let he without sin... and all that..

No point in coming on here all pious and judgemental... I find it amusing the guys that preach loyalty and scorn cheaters. You have no idea what type of relationship this guy has with his wife. In any case, that's his business and none of ours.... To be honest, I would rather be he, and have loved and shared a great sex life for years rather than being a poor single sod, who cant score, and who needs escorts to get his jollies...

We are all here together lads.. let no man cast the first stone..

[curryman]

Ok a bit of home truths.

You are punting since 2009! If your relationship with your wife is that bad that you have to sleep with other women since 2009 then maybe its a good thing your wife found the phone because now she may be able to move on and have time in her life to find somebody who truly respects her and cherish every minute they spend together.

I'm not married and never intend to but I know if I was married I would never ever cheat on my wife.

If the shoe was on the other foot and you found out your wife was having an affair since 2009 I'm sure your posts would be a little different!

Our relationship in general was good but the sex was stale, I do still love her just got carried away as could have better sex elsewhere. You cant make me feel any worse than I do already

[curryman]

If you have kids with your partner then you are in a very awkward spot.
If not then there's nothing to worry about. Its obvious you don't love the woman so let her find someone who does.

kids involved. I do still have feelings for her always have

[Chez]

would be difficult to make it work after that, trust has gone,

[alcatel]

So if you thought that you were in a supposed deep meaningful marriage and you found out your wife was sleeping with loads of different men for 9 years you wouldn't mind?

I mean your wife paying men for sex not your wife getting paid for sex

I'm not being judgmental I just think its funny how cheaters preach and try to make cheating look like its their god given right just because the wife put on weight, went off sex, had kids or whatever reason and then to turn around and say "but I love my wife"

As you said we are all in this together and I'm just happy that I get to take home girls every weekend and if I couldn't be bothered going on the pull I can just go see an Escort

I'm not being judgemental but it's funny how you're being extremely judgemental.
But given that you espouse the name '' Beast''and feel the need to have some fang baring freak as an avatar, you may not be too fine tuned into the complexities of many human lives and relationships.

[Clueless]

I love the way that single guys on here are emphatic that they would not visit girls if they were married..(and of course I'm not married)

[Zander]

Thanks for the complement

People around here are too uptight and take things too seriously. Just remember you're just getting all hot and bothered with a few words you just read on the internet accompanied with a cartoon avatar

I don't find this at all funny, to be in this situation would be an absolute nightmare especially if you were married and had kids, everyone gets hurt

[Zander]

Well I don't think the wife and kids got a second thought when he was having his fun! I agree its a nightmare of a situation but only 1 person got him in to that situation!

ps I'm not laughing at the situation I was laughing at people getting all hot and bothered who are clearly married trying to normalise cheating on the wife.

come on, have a heart, alot of people married on here and probably can relate to this, we all make mistakes.