I feel a certain amount of sympathy for rumbled and others you end up in this situation. However, if you play with fire!! Anyone who is in a relationship which means a lot to them is crazy to cheat on a regular basis even if the risk of been found out is relatively low. We are all human and can sometimes end up in one night stands and brief flings which we end up feeling guilty about. But unless the relationship has a distinct lack of sex or is of an open nature there is little justification for visiting escorts on a regular basis and having a mobile device set aside dedicated for this activity. The cheated partner in this relationship has every right to show this guy the door which I suspect is what will happen in this case sooner or later.
Thats a shitty situation curryman, but an important reminder for everyone to make an extra effort to meticulously cover your tracks. This is a completely secret life for the majority of us and its important to be on the ball. Also curryman, to a certain extent I feel you haven't really learned your lesson. You never know who is on this.... so I wouldn't be harping on about the Scotland thing. We know you have an old nokia, that you have more than one kid, that you were recently in scotland on business and that theres a chance your relationship is going to break down soon. Narrows it down a good bit for someone who may know you thats also on here.