@ original poster: you admitted your guilt to your wife (page 7 of this thread), you have told us you planned to give up punting, yet you continue to post here.
As your wife has recently found your punting phone if she then finds you logged in to this site ( your recent security issue suggests there is a high chance she will ) , then she's not going to believe you want to/can change.
I am not in a position to offer you any real advice, however, if you really want to knock the punting on its head you probably need to stop logging on here as the temptation is too great.
Where is the manipulation from a sex worker who has never spoken to you before or have any clue as to who you are? Yes we advertise, but that doesn't mean we are telling you to cheat on your partner, it just means that we're here for fun at a price. It's a bit like blaming the mars bar if you break your diet. Just because the mars bar is in the shop, doesn't mean you have to buy it.
Personally I never ask my clients if they are married or not, as to me it is nothing to do with the booking. My interest is in the person I'm with and doesn't really go beyond that unless they want to tell me and it makes them feel better to do that. If anything I've probably provided free marriage counselling for some and helped the guy sort out a few problems at home (after the fun).
Unless you are being forced (as in trafficked), no one is to blame for what you do but you!
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Shalom/salaam.
10,000 years of Middle Eastern civilisation and the place is not at peace but rather in pieces.
blue rebel (04-02-16)
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