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    So here's the deal folks:

    I've been a member for just over 4 years but I'm the type of person who likes to keep the head down and just go about my day. I'm a very private person and don't do social media or, as you can tell from this profile, generally partake in online forums(I have communicated with ladies and other forum members through PMs in the past).

    I have been meeting ladies since mid 2009 but never left reviews as I thought all this was illegal when I started out. I'm always somewhat reluctant to send any information about myself online, as I stated already, I am a very private person and always viewed the review system as a paper trail connecting me to an activity which I would prefer to keep private. I obviously realised some time ago that this is currently a legal activity and in hindsight I could have left some reviews.

    So, on to today: A lady arrived in my area today and I have been dying to meet her for ages, I don't think she's been down here before. Anyhow, I gave her a call and was asked to provide references by texting the names of some of the ladies I have met in the past. Now, I understand fully why a lady would ask this and I have no issues whatsoever with being asked to give a reference. I understand that the lady is totally within her right to make such a request. So I sent the text message with the names of some of the ladies I have visited but I last met with a lady in mid 2014 and chances are very high that I won't be remembered.

    I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grypwr85 View Post
    So here's the deal folks:

    I've been a member for just over 4 years but I'm the type of person who likes to keep the head down and just go about my day. I'm a very private person and don't do social media or, as you can tell from this profile, generally partake in online forums(I have communicated with ladies and other forum members through PMs in the past).

    I have been meeting ladies since mid 2009 but never left reviews as I thought all this was illegal when I started out. I'm always somewhat reluctant to send any information about myself online, as I stated already, I am a very private person and always viewed the review system as a paper trail connecting me to an activity which I would prefer to keep private. I obviously realised some time ago that this is currently a legal activity and in hindsight I could have left some reviews.

    So, on to today: A lady arrived in my area today and I have been dying to meet her for ages, I don't think she's been down here before. Anyhow, I gave her a call and was asked to provide references by texting the names of some of the ladies I have met in the past. Now, I understand fully why a lady would ask this and I have no issues whatsoever with being asked to give a reference. I understand that the lady is totally within her right to make such a request. So I sent the text message with the names of some of the ladies I have visited but I last met with a lady in mid 2014 and chances are very high that I won't be remembered.

    I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.
    Personally i dont think if u participate on forum u are classified as 'genuine'. A guy who is active on forum sent me an email, asked him to call me and find out i have his number saved as a guy who booked 2 appointments with me before but never showed up.... its easy to register for anybody and spend time here show just that u have plenty of free time lol or u like to chat on here.... many genuine clients dont even know about forum , or dont have time to chat o here as they are to busy with life and work..meantime many who chat here have not any review or maybe visit very rare escorts...
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    No I've never been asked.
    Probably just aa well

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    Quote Originally Posted by grypwr85 View Post
    I now understand that trust is somewhat gained by forum participation and by reviewing but I would like to ask have any members ever been in this position and how did you prove that you were genuine? And yes, I know it's my own fault for not participating on here but I would like to begin to rectify that.
    I have never been asked for a reference but I do know that ladies do ask for references from time time — I can't blame them as they have their safety to consider.

    I participate on the forums and leave reviews — I believe this may be why I have not been asked.
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    Yeah as I said, it's understandable if some ladies ask for references for their safety but chances are the names I gave don't even remember me. The lady in question hasn't got back to me so I assume she didn't get the info she needed. I'll try again tomorrow.

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    I can't wait for the new law.... 😂
    Time and companionship

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    Quote Originally Posted by FetishCherry View Post
    Personally i dont think if u participate on forum u are classified as 'genuine'. A guy who is active on forum sent me an email, asked him to call me and find out i have his number saved as a guy who booked 2 appointments with me before but never showed up.... its easy to register for anybody and spend time here show just that u have plenty of free time lol or u like to chat on here.... many genuine clients dont even know about forum , or dont have time to chat o here as they are to busy with life and work..meantime many who chat here have not any review or maybe visit very rare escorts...
    I know what you mean. I very rarely log in here but am genuine and have had some great encounters with ladies. Although, I do have a particular kink that some ladies might just remember

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophieX View Post
    I can't wait for the new law.... ��
    This is the main reason why I want to try to earn some trust because I know how difficult it will be in the future.

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    If i'm asked for a reference i just say goodbye, could provide them okay but just couldn't be arsed to be honest,

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophieX View Post
    I can't wait for the new law.... ��
    neither can we, you'll be paying the guys flights on here to visit you in Liverpool, and you won't be on E-I at all much then, will be E-E won't it , Can't wait

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