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    Quote Originally Posted by Jgoldsmith1977 View Post
    No I did read and understand your post I just don't agree with you. You are wrong and it is as simple as that. I am the potential customer and have every right to take reasonable care to ensure I am not assisting or getting involved with anything nasty. Your argument are weak and that is being kind.
    How does nationality affect safety. Infact telling the lie might put the escort at risk for example pretending to be french could put you at risk from those targeting the french etc.
    The same can be said about your discrimination point how could you tell it would not be the false nationality that is 'discriminated' against
    I also do not believe that narrowing down your place of origin to a geographical region the size of a country unfairly infringes on any bodys privacy.

    Who mentioned passports. You are suggesting xenophobia and using words like safety, privacy and discrimination to distract from the fact that the majority of escorts are engaged in false advertising and in a way fraud.


    In another thread in the warning section an escort posted that Spanish = Romanian. Jorge warned her to leave her racist comments out of it, but I don't see it as racist, and as far as my experience goes it seems true. I'm fine with it as long as it seems the lady herself is happy working here.
    I'm not sure why you have a problem with it. As far as I've been told they prefer not to attract the attention of Romanians here who may be involved in sex work themselves, so that is where discretion and safety comes into it.
    There are a huge number of fake profiles fake photos and fake reviews so picking out nationality as the peg to hang your false advertising rant on seems strange to me. But we all have our own tastes and pet hates.
    I don't think there is much danger of anyone targeting the French.
    I agree with Amy Allisons posts. She may have explained it better than I.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jgoldsmith1977 View Post
    I mentioned nationality only in the context of language and I do believe that communication is important. Also if someones English is not good and I speak their language am I not allowed to speak to them in their language.
    I do expect Spanish people to speak spanish the french to speak french and I would imagine that Germans 'Deutsch sprechen.'
    If someone is telling lies about their nationality or anything I am going to question their integrity and ask why. This is not unfounded curiosity but it is good business practice. A separate and yet altogether more important issue is the fact that persons for some parts of the world are more at risk of trafficking and abuse than others. I do not care where the girls are from as much as I care about being able to communicate with them and knowing they doing what they are doing of their own free will. So I disagree with you and firmly believe nationality is a factor. A factor I will continue taking it into account to make an informed decision and it does not make me xenophobic.
    Good business practice for Escorts, is to protect themselves, first and foremost.
    My advice, improve your research or curtail your expectations.
    No point blaming other people, if you can't find any satisfactory service here.

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    Without wanting to sound too condescending to the OP I don't think you really did your homework here before you decided to make contact with any of the ladies. If you had spent any time at all looking through this website, and in particular to threads which relate to nationality and other personal details then you would be well aware of the reasons why most women put down a different country of origin. Discretion and privacy are paramount in this profession. You have no entitlement to any personal details of any lady who allows you to see her. The only thing that I would agree with you with is the ladys' command of the English language but even then I would say to you that you should have looked at the reviews for the ladies. If they had little or no reviews that there is no way of knowing if her English is any good or not. Escorts with a good few positive reviews normally have reasonably good English, if they didn't it would be mentioned in the reviews.

    I would also say that you shouldn't be too clever speaking the native language of the lady, that might frighten the bejesus out of them. Many escorts are not comfortable meeting clients from "The homeland".

    Everytime there is a thread on this topic it reminds me of the episode of the Simpsons where Bart spends the whole year learning Spanish because the family are going to Brazil on holidays. Lisa decides to tell him on the plane that he has actually learnt the wrong language.

    Stick to what you know and not what you think you know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cortez View Post
    Stick to what you know and not what you think you know.
    I love that phrase as it always makes me laugh when people use it. It does really translate into nothing.
    How would or could anyone ever know the difference.
    Has me thinking about a recent study.

    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/scie...elligence.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jgoldsmith1977 View Post
    So today I phoned 5 escorts. Their English was not great but more surprising was the fact the 3 Spanish escorts did not speak Spanish and the French escort did not speak French.

    By the time I phoned the American I was just so cross I hung up when confronted by the wrong accent.

    So why do some escorts (maybe most escorts) tell lies on their profiles I mean shaving a few years off their actual age I can understand but telling lies about the languages they speak, the services they offer or indeed having fake pictures I just do not understand.

    A while back I arranged to meet a girl (actually currently advertising) and was greeted by another girl (also currently advertising) When I asked where the girl who I arranged to meet was the girl said "it is me, I have dyed my hair Is problem?" I answered well yes actually it is first you thinking I would believe that is insulting and 2nd you have wasted my time. I then just walked out passing some strange looking Indian or pakistani fellow who like something out of a sitcom had his ear on a glass pressed to the wall.

    After much thought I have come to realise that the problem with the industry is not the girls but the punters because they tolerate a substandard and often overpriced service instead of just walking away.
    I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Kevin View Post
    I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either
    I have to admit kevin of the many languages I speak Irish is not one of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Kevin View Post
    I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either
    Eejittt roflmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jgoldsmith1977 View Post
    So today I phoned 5 escorts. Their English was not great but more surprising was the fact the 3 Spanish escorts did not speak Spanish and the French escort did not speak French.
    You are obviously very new to visiting escorts if that surprised you.

    Quote Originally Posted by bettercallsaul View Post
    Never cared about the price,never cared about the Nationality on the profile,always cared about genuine good reviews I trusted,perhaps I was doing it wrong.
    Hmmmmm.... I hope you were not doing it wrong — I do the same — are we both wrong?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jgoldsmith1977 View Post
    So today I phoned 5 escorts. Their English was not great but more surprising was the fact the 3 Spanish escorts did not speak Spanish and the French escort did not speak French.

    By the time I phoned the American I was just so cross I hung up when confronted by the wrong accent.

    So why do some escorts (maybe most escorts) tell lies on their profiles I mean shaving a few years off their actual age I can understand but telling lies about the languages they speak, the services they offer or indeed having fake pictures I just do not understand.

    A while back I arranged to meet a girl (actually currently advertising) and was greeted by another girl (also currently advertising) When I asked where the girl who I arranged to meet was the girl said "it is me, I have dyed my hair Is problem?" I answered well yes actually it is first you thinking I would believe that is insulting and 2nd you have wasted my time. I then just walked out passing some strange looking Indian or pakistani fellow who like something out of a sitcom had his ear on a glass pressed to the wall.

    After much thought I have come to realise that the problem with the industry is not the girls but the punters because they tolerate a substandard and often overpriced service instead of just walking away.
    Age doesn't bother me...if she looks like the photos I don't care if her passport says 20 or 50

    Nationality...I may have a liking for a particular accent sometimes ,but that is just a fetish type thing I suppose (I rarely understand why they bother to lie about nationality in most cases (Ireland/Romania however are just 2 examples of nationalities that regularly are unfairly stereotyped in general....so I understand exceptions apply)............The ladies for the most part are extremely smart so if they do it there is a valid business reason im sure

    Anyway.......with regard the ladies you rang who didn't speak their "native" tongue...they are either of a different nationality as you suggest,or you were speaking to their receptionist

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophieX View Post
    I was only speaking to a South American lady the other day who has a Chinese receptionist (with better English - her words not mine )

    Sum ting wong there.....
    Ohhh dear.lol!

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