Cheaters

[Versini]

As will have been stated here before, as long as it's not affecting other parts of your life, or costing too much money or the thrill has gone out of it. If any of the above apply quit, or give it up for a while and/or be more selective in who you see.

Ok but will you ever be faithful, are you always likely to stray

[Tgrant]

I've found when I've been completely happy in a relationship then there would never have even been the 'thought' of straying.

When things haven't been going great then it's something that might pop into your mind - which is when I begin to realise that things aren't great.

Different reasons for different people though I'm sure.

[Petros]

Can escorts and clients ever have a genuine honest relationship or are we just cheaters for life.
I for one am trying to put this life behind me and lasted 1 year and 5 months but finally did go back, do others find relationships difficult too

First off — the two situations are different! Clients see escorts for totally different reasons than why Escorts see clients! One is for the thrill and pleasure while the other is basically for financial reasons.

For that reason I'd imagine it would be easier for an escort to have a genuine relationship than for a punter — particularly if the punter is in a relationship while he is actively punting.

[Cable87]

Couldn't it also depend on what you and your partner consider to be 'cheating'?

Although I've yet to be in one myself, I have met a few folks (and heard of a lot more) in 'open' relationships, wherein a set of guidelines, terms and conditions, etc., are applied to allow both one or both parties to 'seek gratification' outside the confines of their relationship. Whether this is done through swinging, bringing additional sex partners home for them to 'share', or simply an agreement to neither enquire nor disclose any goings on they might have on the side, I imagine that so long as the boundaries set out between them are adhered to, that neither partner is 'cheating' in the strict sense of the word.

[robbie9]

cheating is fun.

[Westsidex]

cheating is fun.

Its fun if you get caught too.

Westside.

[sleepy163]

"(Lest you're tied by property or kids or such. In which case prob better not rock the boat : have a bit of fun on the side , and go home a smiling happy man , husband , dad .. ) Xxx"

You've hit the nail on the head for me right there... I love my wife, kids, home etc ... But I also love something exciting, different & intriguing on the side every now & again.