Originally Posted by
JayOka
So, I decided to browse the site a couple of weeks ago and called a few of the escorts. I have a hybrid Irish - West African accent and a few asked me if I was black and when I informed them that I was indeed, they told me that they preferred not to or didn't see black men. Fair enough. Business is business and if you would prefer not to take my custom, then that's your call.
Eventually I found a girl I liked, gave her a call, had a chat and she seemed friendly. Arranged a meeting with her for the weekend. Called her, made my way there, parked up and rang again for her to buzz me in. Nothing. Went back to the car and sent a text. Nothing. Waited for ten minutes and gave out one last Hail Mary call. Nothing. I eventually got the message.
I'm relatively well built, tall, drive a nice car and dress well. It was dark out but the only reason I can think of for her avoiding me, is her looking out and seeing that I'm a black dude.
Shit sucks, man.
Do most escorts prefer not to see Black men? It would be nice if they stated that on their profiles. Are a lot of Black dudes that see escorts dodgy? Too big?
Sorry for rambling, thoughts are a bit muddled right now.
Eh, with foreign looking guys all girls would be a tad apprehensive but this sounds more like she was having a hard time getting someone out/ dude extended.
Personally for me the black and African community here is still a tad too small to be taking a risk.
One time Itook this amazeballs congolese fella cuz I don't run into them that often but week after I was getting my hair did and he was at the barbers chair down the shop. FML.
But be polite and after your ethnicity mention your nationality, makes things slightly easier.
What if "It's Raining Men" and 'Let the bodies hit the floor' are both about the same event but from different perspectives 🤔